Phrases with which to "close?"

KeroKeroKeroppi · 2012-07-13T22:58:15+00:00

I almost never say anything when going in for a kiss... Silence, eye contact, and body language is best.

Although thinking about it, I sometimes do a soft "Hi" with face really close, then they say "Hi" and you kiss.

End of the night f-closes, the classics seem to work best:

-"Lets get out of here"

-"I'm not quite ready for this night to end".

-"Lets go", "Where?", "Adventure."

PyouA · 2012-07-13T23:32:47+00:00

When you are opening, a line might be witty or unique or display a certain quality about you that when the girl in question doesn't have any other information about you, will make you attractive. So there are good openers (even though saying hi could still work just fine as well).

In terms of closing, the girl already should feel like she knows you pretty well. You should have already proven that you are confident or witty or whatever else - so a single line at this point really isn't going to help you. It can however hurt you if the line is incongruent with the picture she has painted of you in her head.

So basically a closing line (if you use one, really you don't have to say anything) should be all about not burning the bridge. You should be trying to be vague and not make the girl commit to anything or feel any tension.

That's probably why "you know you're really pretty" works for you - and it's why stuff like, "let's get out of here" works for me. The only way you are going to get hurt with a closing line is if it directly conflicts with how you've been presenting yourself until then or if it makes the girl feel like a slut/uncomfortable, so just make it vague and non-commital and you're good to go.

thedarkline · 2012-07-13T23:12:39+00:00

It really doesn't matter what you say. The most important thing comes across in the nonverbals--that moment of recognition of shit about to go down. The most important thing is the attraction, comfort, and rapport built previous to the moment. An interaction could really go like this, if properly set up:

"Chicken banana orange."

"What?"

"Don't worry about it."

kiss

Have fun!

Title	Phrases with which to "close?"
Author	Melodicon
Upvotes	6
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Date	July 13, 2012 10:22 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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