Please help me out 🙏🏻

Western-Month-3877 · 2026-02-03T12:40:55+00:00

College is a very appropriate place to sharpen your social skills. Lots of students, you won’t be seen weird if you approach them as you’re one of them.

The thing about your case and thousand similar ones, is that you gotta be honest with yourself: do an honest assessment on yourself. From 0 to 10, how decent are your social skills? Look at your social circles, are they big? How many girls are in your circles?

Chopped guys in college dating baddies because they got excellent social skills. They know how to throw a hook, how to push and pull, how to escalate and de-escalate, even if they are not totally aware of their techniques. But that’s kinda intermediate or advanced level of social skills.

I always use an analogy of advanced level of social skills is like being able to swim in an open sea. Before you can do that, make sure you know how to swim in a deep swimming pool first (ie: how to approach a stranger and start a convo with her). Even before that, you gotta know how to stay afloat in the water (how to keep the convo going among your friends in your circles). Yes, just like other skills, there are levels.

PostAvailable9966 · 2026-02-03T08:58:19+00:00

Here is a full breakdown of the what you can improve.

Albeit written from Daygame point of view, it is universal. It roughly breaks down into: 1. Volume 2. Value 3. Inner Game 4. Logistics 5. Technique

Rest assured, you don’t need to resort to fatalism yet, there is a fight you can fight.

As all of Seduction, it is extremely hard, but the rewards are great. A few quality girls can completely change your life.

nocturaweb · 2026-02-03T18:07:26+00:00

The only solution is to get out of your head and go up to a women

Whatever comes up in your mind you say to her.

And then do it over and over again.

There really is no other way, than to go into the fear.

Available-Note-9652 · 2026-02-03T15:27:17+00:00

If you’re having trouble getting going you can walk up to a girl, tell her your nervous and don’t do this often, and then ask for her number. It’s lower success rate but you have to start somewhere. Once you get more comfortable you can start mixing in other stuff.

Doraemonlam · 2026-02-05T00:57:35+00:00

There are quite some free resource online

then it's just a lot of practices

Title	Please help me out 🙏🏻
Author	Street-Support-3364
Upvotes	8
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Date	February 3, 2026 8:50 AM UTC (6 months ago)
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