Possibly biggest fuck-up possible...

ConnorAGM1969 · 2017-06-05T01:21:00+00:00

It happens to a lot of people, it's just that most don't talk about it, you were nervous, relax and then try it again. Talk to her honestly, if she doesn't want anything, then try it with another one.

Kenic_In_MD · 2017-06-05T02:58:06+00:00

Performance anxiety. It's actually really common, you need to relax and stop worrying so much about "being good at sex" just enjoy the moment and flow with it. If you focus too hard your dick won't do what you want it to do. Which in this case was your lady friend.

MrEagles28 · 2017-06-05T10:27:40+00:00

The exact same thing happened to me when I lost my virginity. You were just nervous because it was your first time. In my case, I tried again about a week later with the same girl and everything went well. I cut out porn and jerking off and that helped as well.

Guy-Manderson · 2017-06-05T17:03:17+00:00

You should focus more on having good sex than being good at sex. See how taking a few words away changes perspective?

This is a learning process, nobody can expect you to know all the spots if you've tried none yet. Give yourself a chance now.

danielinthebox · 2017-06-06T12:12:17+00:00

Stop fapping

NookJ · 2017-06-07T22:00:34+00:00

You didn't fuck up. In fact, she may think something is wrong with her because you didn't get it up, since in her mind, guys are supposed to always be horny and ready to go (unless she's experienced this before). Don't sweat it, just go for it again and I bet you have no issues.

MisterBurgerFace · 2017-06-05T05:13:02+00:00

Jeez, man, I have no earthly idea why someone who calls themselves an idiot and is publicly putting themselves down online, clearly agitated over what happened in the past, would have a hard time getting a boner during sex. It's baffling. Really unexplainable.

You should relax and never bang your roommate. Use common sense.

Jack__Knife · 2017-06-05T20:37:21+00:00

Now the cherry on top of the cake of awkwardness, disappointment and failure: she's my roommate.

An easy round two. No sweat Bro. It happens. Just get some more weed or booze and rinse/repeat.

Aeon199 · 2017-06-05T04:25:44+00:00

How is that a biggest fuck-up possible?

I'd take that any day over knowing women will never, ever have any interest someone like me.

You need to have high value to even get to where you did. "Good job." You're lucky.

You should be grateful. I can only be bitter.

Title	Possibly biggest fuck-up possible...
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Date	June 5, 2017 12:58 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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