Posture is a key part in setting yourself apart from other men. Many hunch their backs, stare at their feet, and wander aimlessly. Don't be them. A good rule of thumb is to hold yourself like you own whatever venue you're in. Have your chest out, walk slowly, yet with a purpose. Do not look down unless you absolutely have to. When standing, spread you legs shoulder width apart. When sitting, don't fidget with your hands and don't cross your arms, as this presents you as unapproachable. Spread you legs out, not so much that it comes off as you trying to take up as much space as possible, but that you're able to sit comfortably. You can also put one leg's ankle onto the other's knee, as this is also a confident sitting pose. Doing these will covertly tell women you're confident in yourself.
Confidence itself can act like an opener, it can make girls notice and wonder: "What does that guy got going on that makes him so confident?". Often times, I can simply sit in the middle of a bar and order my drink and a woman will sit next to me. She watched me walk in confidently, perhaps I made brief eye contact, and now she wants to see if I'm the real deal and capable of opening to her. You may have heard how important body language is in other posts, for example, when standing next to a girl you open to, you keep your feet and body pointed away while you open. Why? Because it shows your lack of interest. Only when she turns towards you do you reciprocate. Another example is leaning back in your seat, especially on a date. Once again, this is showing both your relaxation and your lack of interest, that you're not trying to win *her*, she has to win you. You are the prize.
After reading this, start to incorporate this confident body language in your daily life, when you're gaming women or not. It may feel unnatural, or forced at first, but eventually it'll be something you do subconsciously, giving you an air of confidence where ever you go.
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