I read 4 of the most best selling books about dating and dynamics. I am well equipped with concepts that i have not been really aware of. But i still find it difficult to grasp what to do in real life. I have absolutely no issue with confidence. Alright what am I struggling with? Picture this: i go to a social event taking place weekly. I see girls i want to hit on. They are usually in a group (either friends or people they just got to know them). I introduce myself and we have a chat i try to polarize and end up with none. If the goal is to fuck, what should be tweaked or how should the dynamic look like? Getting sexual early on? I try to refrain from the work stuff but then i am only left with some deep questions that i find irrelevant!