Practising inner game

RedErin · 2010-08-03T18:13:03+00:00

Fake it til you make. Go out and sarge like you're a sex god.

Weaponized_Dairy · 2010-08-03T18:37:56+00:00

In other words, frame control comes from your inner game. Things like: walking into a bar by yourself, inner thoughts are: "I own this place", " I look good in these cloths", "I look like somebody people want to know", " I'm here for my own enjoyment".

Little self affirmations help snowball the inner game in order to have solid frame control regardless of the situation.

Other things you can do is to take inventory of your best attributes. If a girl gives you a glance, or someone compliments you, take those as small springboards for validation of your outer confidence which is assured internally by your inner game.

When I first began strengthening my inner game I used James Bond to help me. I though of how bond (daniel craig) would handle the situation, even the most benign situations. It helped me to have an image in my mind of what I wanted to project. Seems silly, but it helped 100%, in fact I still fall back on the "what would Bond do" moments from time to time :)

hope that helps

IANAPUA_Yet · 2010-08-03T19:28:27+00:00

I'm not a big fan of self affirmation, but I think frame control (hat tip to Weaponized_Dairy) is an important part of inner game.

I've been a big fan of House for awhile, but I just noticed the other day how incredible he is at controlling the frame. He's absolutely relentless. It might be good practice to just observe the people around you and on TV. Take note of how they handle frames and critique them in your mind. Also, of course, work on your own frame control as you live your daily life.

ancient_greece · 2010-08-03T17:39:40+00:00

"Inner game" has to be the stupidest term in the pickup community. It's called "confidence." Plenty of people -- probably everybody -- has confidence issues; your question has been raised in many subreddits.

Here's a start: http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&safe=off&q=site%3Areddit.com+confidence+help&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&oq=&gs_rfai=

Title	Practising inner game
Author	rmbarnes
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	August 3, 2010 1:28 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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