I have "date" #2 with HB7 on tuesday. Date #1 was great, but I failed the LMR test. I am worried about getting caught in the friend zone, so this is gonna be my make or break moment. The pretense for this date is to work on some music at my place (i'm a guitar player, she's a singer). I anticipate the question - "if i don't want to date you, would you still want to play music with me?" (aka, questioning my motivation). How would you answer?

EDIT: She came over, we played music and talked for hours. She stayed over and we decided to begin something while taking everything very slowly (I was incredibly smooth handling this conversation without pushing her away). We spent the night going back and forth between talking and making out (fell asleep around 6am), with sensual touching and teasing the erogenous zones without pushing too far.

Now here's my new question: She (HB7) asked me to join her for a play tomorrow. I told her I already have tentative plans (can't seem too available), but I do want to go (My tentative plans are actually a first date with an OkC HB6.5, which at this point I'm highly considering cancelling). I KNOW that seddit will tell me that I can't go with HB7 because it's been too soon. Can anyone "allow" me to go or give me guidance in the best way to get the best of both worlds?

Btw, I'm a very conservative HB ranker. I could really add a point to both girls.