(For seduction) DAE use the same perfected date repeatedly for most women?

MrRisky · 2011-01-03T18:51:34+00:00

Haha, good thread. I recently took a woman to the school bowling alley and was surprised at how fun and cheap it was. I've been considering using it as my go-to date in the future. Plus, the more I go the better I'll get at bowling, and I can tease my date for getting her ass whooped!

However, I think it's important to keep it fresh every once in a while, so that you don't get too comfortable with that one date idea and therefore become less comfortable with other scenarios.

MrRisky · 2011-01-03T22:17:20+00:00

I have three local dive bars within 5 min walking to my place. I generally like to end dates there.

*edit - Upvoted, great discussion starter, perfect example of the type of shit we need here.

cheddarchexmix · 2011-01-03T22:34:49+00:00

I've got a few "date circuits" that I like to use, esp for first dates. Most of my first dates will involve one of these.

That said, the "perfected date" has much less to do with venue than with our chemistry. I use these spots because they have multiple options within walking distance of each other, I know the staff (and often patrons) at many of them, they have kino-friendly seating, and they are close to my place.

a cool outside bar with a fire pit, and right around the corner is another cool bar with old school video games and skee-ball. A few other cool bars in walking distance.
an awesome divey bar with outside seating and several other cool bars and food trailers within walking distance. The bartenders/doormen at the first bar know me pretty well.
4 cool more upscale bars all within walking distance and very close to my place.
a neighborhood casual sports-type bar with games and a great atmosphere where a lot of the staff know me. Within 1 block of a few other good casual spots.

Papshmire · 2011-01-04T01:50:42+00:00

Definitely. There is a hidden pizza place at the far end of town that is very quaint that is rarely ever packed and is hardly ever visited by any of her/our age. And typically they are amazed that they never have heard of it before. Also, the pizza is AMAZING.

glassuser · 2011-01-03T18:53:39+00:00

It depends on what you think of as "same". Girls tend to LOVE going to the gun range - and so do I. But if I go pretty often on my own, does that still make it the same date, or just going to do something I like to do and she wants to try?

much_ado · 2011-01-03T20:22:32+00:00

I try not to attach too much meaning to the place. It was you and the fun that she liked, not the location, don't you think?

daygamer · 2011-01-03T20:54:44+00:00

I did pretty much the same first date for 3 girls (both in terms of bar hops and routines I ran), and fclosed all of them.

abstractpickupartist · 2011-01-04T07:16:53+00:00

Does leave you vulnerable to this. :-)

The whole clip is kind of fun, but link starts at the relevant point.

Title	(For seduction) DAE use the same perfected date repeatedly for most women?
Author	HearAndNow
Upvotes	13
Comments	19
Date	January 3, 2011 5:25 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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