Lifted from that blog I keep pushing (lol): Dating Americans

"Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I will bed the queen of France" -Voltaire

Voltaire is right. Attracting women is about being confident and charming. Game is about getting past the shields and defenses to get your ten minutes with the queen. Getting in is the hard part.

I've always maintained that given a captive audience, I could charm just about anyone. What's your captive audience? What situations will you create in your life to ensure a captive audience?

Some ideas pop into my head:

  • Get a job where interaction with people is required.

  • Become a performer, do public performances.

  • Get a job working with people, get a position of leadership. Directing, teaching, advising. (Avoid jobs with minor students- try something better like teaching a community class a hobby)

  • Join a group or club with regular meetings or that does volunteer work or projects. Getting to know people while keeping your hands busy is a great way to break through the shield.

  • Wear something ridiculous in public.

  • Do something amazing. Give people a reason to want to talk to you. "Hey, aren't you that guy who..."

  • Chat in line at the grocery store.

  • Roller-coaster lines. These can take an hour. Wait until you're near a group of girls.