As a salsa dancer, I have had the chance to quite often go from a quick initial meeting, to kino, to makeout, to maybe sex. Quite often it is the case that this is not how it goes, but hey, when you're at a salsa club, you get a chance with a different person every 5 minutes, and some level is touching is expected, so if you're not getting far quickly enough it's cool, you get another chance with someone pretty quick.

Now having done this myself, and having heard and seen others progress fairly quickly, one of the things I see people doing wrong quite often, is not trying to progress quickly enough. In fact the problem with most guys is that they follow a pattern that puts them and leaves them in the friend zone. To explain this, I developed this chart, both to organize my thoughts on it, and to be able to easily explain and discuss it with others;

progression chart

So this is basically how all game progresses. Since you're here on this forum, we must assume that your goal is to get to step 6. You dont want to JUST go to step six, cause if you just walked up to some chick on the street and started banging her right there that's probably rape.

Take a minute to consider the chart. The problem most guys have, is they think they should go from step 1, to 2, to 4, to 5. They never go to step 3, or maybe they even try to go from 5 straight to 6 with no foreplay. Guys, that is NEVER gonna work. You HAVE to flirt, you HAVE to escalate, you HAVE to get her in the mood, or like most guys, you are just gonna end up in the friend zone.

What you wanna try to do as a PUA is go from 1, to 3, to 6. You may notice, that progression does not necessarily involve taking the girl to a private location. Yes, it sometimes happens that you can get laid right there in the club, the park, the beach, or wherever you meet the chick! In fact, there are times when women may be more likely to be sexual with you in a public place, because when people are around, she does not have to worry about you being some guy who might murder or rob her. Part of running good game is getting her to NOT think about morals or safety or involved topics, but to only get her to focus on the here and now, and the good feelings and fun you can provide. Any time you go out, 1>3>6 should be your goal, but 1>3>6 requires a considerable amount of pre-compliance on the chick's part, and not all of them are gonna be down like that even if your game is on point.

1>2>3>5>6 is the most likely scenario. You should notice, this progression pretty much excludes the friend zone. Chicks are gonna try and put you there, and you can't let yourself be put there. You have to get your flirts and escalations in. If you attempt a step 3, and she shuts it down, take a step back to 2 for a while, and try again a little later. If it's been 30 or 45 minutes and she's not showing any compliance for step 3, just move on to another chick, because she's gonna take too much time, and you could be spending that time on another chick who's willing.

Finally, 1>2>4>5>3>6 is a route which is possible, but one you do not have time for. This route is the route that has the highest potential for you to develop the best RELATIONSHIP, but takes the MOST time, and has the LOWEST success rate.

This is probably a news flash for most guys, but women are not paragons of morality. They arent angelic holy beings. They arent all highly intelligent people who require you to impress them on how you broke reality with your studies in quantum physics.

Most women are short sighted, dull, immoral creatures who don't care about you and pretty much anything you have to say. They just want to have fun, and if you aren't bringing the fun, you arent getting laid. Even if a chick has every reason to like you logically, it won't matter if she does not like you, SUPERFICIALLY. It sucks, I know, I wish there were plenty of fulfilling relationships to pick and choose from out there, but thinking that way is most likely going to get you weeded out of the gene pool. So, do yourself, a favor, forget the 1>2>4, and work on your 1>3>6.