Hey guys,

23 YO male here living in a major city working in finance. I have an unhealthy fixation for older women (30-45) and find myself often unable to get off with girls my own age.

Anywho, I was at the gym and spotted a gorgeous woman. Around 5’5, Colombian with an accent, fake C- cup, beach blonde hair and a toned body. Immediately approached and asked for her number - she was hesitant but gave it to me.

Took her out on a few dates to some swanky places in the city, (bar, restaurant, bar, restaurant) in that order) and on the 3rd date she took me back to hers and we had incredible sex.

I ended up staying over the next weekend, and when we went out for dinner after a long day of cuddling, we sat next to a middle aged couple who was not attractive in the least. The woman was a partner at a hedgefund and after some light banter (purely business) gave me her card as I am in a similar field.

After dinner, my “milf” was visibly irritated and I didn’t understand why. She said that was extremely rude of me to take a woman’s card in front of her, specially on our first date(s) of getting to know each-other, and that she didn’t want to talk to the couple in the first place which was rude of me. I also made a joke about her dog being spoiled because we literally bought it a salmon filet and croissant for dinner, which she didn’t like. She also said something along the line of “you choose to advance your career instead of paying attention to me - something of the sort) She then basically kicked me out of her apartment for the night, which I was alright with.

The sad thing about this is I actually really enjoyed my time with this woman, and until that evening everything was going beautifully. How should I handle the situation? Did i really do anything wrong? On one hand I feel like she is probably unstable based on her behavior and I should not condone it, and on the other I want to win her back... conflicting emotions.