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[–]Zenterus 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When she says something that really impresses you:
"Oh my God, fuck you!" Give it a second for her to react "I love [insert impressive thing here]! I hope this is nkt fate or something."
This is more of a personal push/pull that is tailored to my personality and game. But you can use it as an example to make your own.
"You know, my mother won't accept little white girls like you, but if you show her your [insert complimentary characteristic] Im sure she might reconsider."
Last but not least, when she tells you where she's from:
"I heard you guys are fucking assholes! Weird though, you're so lovely"
[–]whirleymon 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're cute but you're too (X) for me. (crazy, short, tall, loud etc)
[–]thedudesmashes 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"You're really pretty, it sucks your not my type or I might've taken you out sometime"
[–]smoothmax 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Search the internet for: banter lines, pickup lines, push-pull lines, flirty lines. There are collections of stuff out there.
The lines are not special or magical in any way but by reading them, imagining yourself using them and thinking about how they work (in the context of meeting, flirting, dating) you can learn a lot. What roles do the lines presume? How are they a pull (compliment) and how do they push? (put down, tease). Are they self deprecatory or DHV?
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 6 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
[–]letsgetrandy -2 points-1 points0 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't ever say "you're so beautiful/pretty" to a girl. If she's even a little bit pretty, she probably hears that same thing from every guy who doesn't know how to talk to a woman. When you do the same thing as everyone else, you lower your value, and you fail to stand out.
Instead, pick something specific that is an actual compliment to her, and not purely a compliment to her luck in the gene pool. For example, "you have really good taste in shoes", or "I like the confidence it takes to wear such flashy earrings"... that sort of thing. In this way, it's actually a compliment to something she's done, and the pull is implicit: if you like her shoes, why didn't you also like her dress? what's so crazy about her earrings that would require confidence to wear them?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What about her hair say if she recently dyed it another color?
[–]letsgetrandy 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Generally, if a woman does anything drastic to her hair, she will be somewhat insecure about it for a few days before becoming comfortable with her new look. If you fail to mention it and give some kind of compliment, she may just assume you don't like it at all... so it's worthwhile to say something casual like "hey, cool hair" so that she knows you noticed and you don't hate it, but you're also not going to spend the next 30 minutes kissing her ass over the topic.
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