[QuickTip]When initiating kino avoid staring at the point of contact. Play it subtle by being focused elsewhere and let the physical interaction come of as something natural or unforced.

skgoa · 2012-10-03T11:52:14+00:00

Eyes are a very strong indicator of what is going on in your mind. By looking at it, you focus your mind on it, inevitably. The girl will notice this, too. She is going to wonder why you touching her is so significant to you. To a confident man, it shouldn't even be worth a thought. At best, she is going to realise that you aren't confident in the touch being totally normal. And worst, she is going to subconsciously fear that you are trying to steal from her, poison her or - and this is the absolute worst that can happen - she might even think you are just touching her as a fake gesture of familarity to trick her into building comfort and rapport with you... and you wouldn't want her to get that crazy idea, would you?

ThrowawayPUA · 2012-10-03T12:27:22+00:00

There is a really good example of this by Lance Mason on his Youtube video series "How To Kino." He demonstrates a "fake push." He says it's easier to escalate to a higher level if you are separating rather than closing in, it helps the woman feel less smothered. Anyway, he shows how you put your hand on her upper arm and pretend to push, but you fall back so you're not really pushing her, you are pushing yourself backwards. It's a great combination of kino and state break, I sometimes use it as a roll-off.

CinSity0 · 2012-10-04T23:32:18+00:00

Another good move, on 2-3-4 sets, is to Kino the girl you aren't directly talking at when you open. I.e. You come into a semi circle 3 set - left hand goes on left girls shoulder/hip while engaging middle or right girl. Left girl is essentially distracted by your words and assertiveness. Then when you ping back to left girl, shes comfortable. - Then the opposite, when move convo to left girl, kino other 2. Whole set is now open to more touching.

SlappaDaBayssMon · 2012-10-03T09:29:49+00:00

I never thought about this before, but it makes complete sense.

PrimalTruth · 2012-10-03T10:58:24+00:00

So when I walk into a room, make eye contact with a HB8, walk up to her, say "Hello miss... ?" shake her hand, grab her by the shoulder (while holding her hand), pull our faces close together, having never broke eye contact and say in the most assertive voice I can must with a huge fucking smile on my face "I don't know who you are but I'm going to find out" and then we fuck that night - I'm doing it wrong?

What if I am intense as a firey fuck and I enjoy being that way!? What if chicks dig it (and they do)? What if being that man on fire burns away the cobwebs and clears a path to what I want?

Yes, one of the points of kino is to build comfort, but the goal is to have fun and see if this woman has potential for something more, right... ?

Title	[QuickTip]When initiating kino avoid staring at the point of contact. Play it subtle by being focused elsewhere and let the physical interaction come of as something natural or unforced.
Author	flamingOreos
Upvotes	45
Comments	11
Date	October 3, 2012 6:41 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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