I missed out on a lot of fun in my high school years (home schooled) and college years (snobby university where you had to be in a fraternity to have much fun). Thankfully I picked a good major (Computer Science) and got a really nice paying job out of college at a prestigious company where I have been at for about three years now. Lots of great benefits, PTO and everything, they don't overwork me either.

The problem is that my entire department is guys and a couple older women, since it is computer science, it isn't exactly fun cool things. Everyone has nerdy hobbies and hates the idea of going out and partying.

In college I wanted to bartend but since I was not in a fraternity, it was undoable.

I don't even want to bartend just for women, I want to do it to experience the party lifestyle and have wild sex stories to look back on. I want to do it because it puts me into a lot of contact with not only hot girls but fun party people.

Never had the chance to party in college and it floods my thoughts at work sometimes, especially when I have to code.

I've been thinking about it because I see my twenties as sort of a last chance to get the life I wanted in college but could not get, plus I love party girls that are wild as opposed to girl next door types.

Its like I feel as if I have to go into a job like club promoting, bartending or model photography in order to somewhat regularly fuck hot girls or run across them. I mean I worked hard to be a software engineer and the money is great as well as the career trajectory but I feel like it puts a cap in terms of me getting attractive women because almost all the guys in my field are, well, struggling a lot on that end.