This question just came up in a conversation I was having.

I find myself on stage a fair amount. Does anyone have advice on turning this into an easy in?

Routines for rockstars or public speakers?

My gig is regular and in the same place, I see a lot of the same people.

But it just struck me that this is an opportunity I must be missing. When a girl is on stage, being awesome, she's 100x hotter too me. An ugly person going crazy on a piano / stand up routine / whatever it gets me. It DHVs them for me.

I suspect cute girls feel the same way.

That said, the answer might be along the lines of don't hit on girls you work with. (I understand that everyone doesn't agree with that but I do.)

So will you give me advice and stories on chatting up girls right after you finished a public performance of some kind?