scared to approach for some reasons

epimpstyle · 2024-05-04T08:38:41+00:00

Take baby steps and don't aim too high:

1) normal chat - 2) set up a date - 3) be witty/funny and escalate to KINO if possible (if not, set up another date and try again) - 4) ask for another date and this time should be close to your home because if all goes well, you will need an intimate place like your bedroom.

You can find the answer to your concerns by talking to her face to face and looking for the hints - example: if she is single she will give you enough hints about it (maybe she is not single but she is going on a date because she thinks that you are better than her actual boyfriend, if you are not then she will tell you "I have a boyfriend/relationship"- sad but true!)

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-05-04T12:55:34+00:00

do they like lgbtq people,

Are you gay, lesbian, trans? If you are then this will definitely affect the answer so probably need to indicate this

are they dtf or wanting a serious mono relationship,

You're overthinking, get into a conversation with someone first and then maybe in a date and only then worry about this.

have no idea how to go from normal chat, to asking out, to sex (or even chatiing to sex)

Again overthinking. Worry about this one step at a time, sounds like you're not even starting conversations at the moment. Focus on that before worrying about sex

so how exactly do you get over that sorta fear

By taking it one step at a time. You're first step is to start conversations with people. Forget about everything else and just focus on that. So just find ways of starting innocent conversations with people (just ask for the time or comment on the weather if you have to). Once this is easy focus on the next step like asking for their number which is just a case of saying something like "I enjoyed talking to you, we'll have to keep in touch"

atomant88 · 2024-05-04T13:40:19+00:00

its normal to be tentative when learning a new skill. just do your research and then go practice. not every approach leads somewhere. thats normal. not every date leads somewhere either. but you have to start by building rapport and then escalate from there as they become comfortable with you

FrederickVonFanculen · 2024-05-07T15:16:35+00:00

You've too many fears all at once and that's why you can't approach. As your first approaches you should focus on doing something extremely simple like telling her you're in a hurry but would like to meet her again. In this way you'll just focus on one simple thing: ask her out and leave. She might say yes as you don't need to overcomplicate anything. Once you can do that you build from there and grow from experience. If you want to know more you can DM me, as for me It was extremely hard to begin but now I'm very straightforward and relaxed so I know the process

Title	scared to approach for some reasons
Author	YogurtFuture2
Upvotes	4
Comments	4
Date	May 4, 2024 7:57 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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