Hey guys,

In the past I’ve had lots of success with women, but this last year has been an abject failure. I haven’t been laid in 9 months and I feel like I’m completely losing game (along with my mind)

Anyway, about a month ago I went out with a girl who is absolutely baller hot and managed to not fuck the date up somehow. We went for a meal then a hike in the woods. I didn’t escalate much if at all.

Made plans for another date, but she had to cancel. Since then she’s initiated conversation a few times and we never lost touch, though we’re not having hours long phone conversations.

Made plans with her tomorrow to go on a sort of adventure in the middle of the night to a few cool spots around where we live. We’re going to be in a car for about three hours total.

I’ve set myself up for great success in that I have a golden opportunity to get invited to stay at her house after.

My confusion and worry comes from her profile mostly. She’s one of these girls that has “not really in the headspace for dating at the moment, but new friends and activity partners are welcome”.”

So how do I physically escalate with her in my passenger seat?

I’ve met lots of “no hookup” girls in the past that ended up just hooking up with me, but if I’m an hour away from home with her hostage, how do I save face if I try to kiss her and she’s not into it? I’ve become so frustrated these last few months I’m worried I might be really aggravated and unable to recover. I’m wholly uninterested in just being friends.

She wouldn’t agree to this kind of date if she wasn’t at least tangentially interested right?

Fuck I’m losing my skills and confidence lately. Soooooo much more rejection than any other time in my life...