My mindset: Everyone has their own needs, struggles, priorities, journey in life and comparing people. It's down to whether I like or don't like the person.

I can share compassion for people who dosent have their life together, but I can't share enough compassion for myself.

I thought I got my mindset under control; but I didn't. I met a guy who is ,in my terms fulfilled in life, (popular, large group of friends, athlethic, fit/good-looking,etc) as better "person" than me. And I feel inadequate to him.

I feel like this is a big-time ego problem and it looks like I don't fully believe in this mindset. How should I re-word it/re-inforce it? perhaps a few change of words can completely change my view.