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Unless he never comes round anymore, he probably just wants to be alone. Doesn't mean he doesn't like you! guys just need some time to themselves, away from their girlfriend every now and then. If he's completely neglecting you that's not normal, but if sometimes he admits he'd rather spend time alone at his place that's healthy.
/r/seduction05/06/17 05:12 PM
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if you have a mental condition its not a crutch or an easy way out. its medication you need to be healthy. Looking down on people who use anxiety meds is like looking down on people who take antibiotics for an infection. makes no fucking sense.
/r/seduction13/05/17 11:52 AM
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You are right. I can't give up. I know I won't. I can struggle and suffer for a long time without giving in if i know what's coming for me at the end. If i know the path I'm on leads to my destination, I'll walk alone in the dark until my feet bleed. the thing that gets me is the thought that I might be walking down the wrong path. I know everyone makes mistakes, but there is always the thought in the back of my head telling me "what if this isn't the right thing to do to get what you want? you …
/r/seduction02/05/17 09:19 PM
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Your ignorance is baffling. I cant force you to understand that different people like different things
/r/seduction03/04/17 03:04 PM
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Im in this situation also. All the girls i could talk to i know but havent spoken to, and im not sure how to go about it
/r/seduction26/03/17 10:46 AM
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dude, stop. I dont know if this is your intention, but you sound like you are telling us what to do. you say "i dont believe its desirable or natural for men" no, its not desirable for YOU. different people have different wants and needs, and you have to accept that. I feel like the reason you are trying to convince other guys your way of life is "the right way" is because you feel your road in life is lonely because so few men view it the way you view it. IF you want to be poly-amorous then go …
/r/seduction25/03/17 09:17 PM
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Yeah, i see what you mean. Its hard to describe exactly. What i mean. You are right that girls do wanna meet guys but they dont want a pua coming up to them and talkin out his ass, banging her and disappearing. They want to look back on the moment they met and think it was luck they ran into each other and sparked up a conversation, not a calculated act done by a guy who did the same to many other girls the same day.
/r/seduction25/03/17 08:01 PM
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No, you are twisting my words. Dont oretend to be her friend, just focus on making interactions natural. Most of the time if a girl knows you are gaming her it will turn her off.
/r/seduction25/03/17 05:22 PM
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Ok then? Im not forcing you to take my advice.
/r/seduction25/03/17 04:07 PM
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It's difficult, but I think you should show your intent more subtly, but still show it.
/r/seduction25/03/17 03:55 PM
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I think diferent people notice different things and pay more notice to them. For example, there wad a girl i thought was hot, i first noticed how pretty her eyes were, and i asked my friend to check her out and he thought she was average because he noticed her nose first, which wasnt hideous, but not symmetrical.
/r/seduction10/03/17 12:35 PM
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Yep. This. Ive always done this. Some guys i know think its crazy and they spend ages evaluating girls looks and comparing them to each other, and i just think "who the fuck cares, if shes attractive, go for it"
/r/seduction08/03/17 11:20 PM
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i usually just reply confidently with "thank you" whenever someone mentions something like this ( i dont have dreads btw) unless i can come up with a witty line in a split second on the spot, which is usually never. your problem with delivery might be because its already in your head that that is your "line" and it sounds forced. i used to have pre prepared lines for certain things people would say and they never worked because my delivery wasn't authentic. saying thank you either throws them of…
/r/seduction06/03/17 11:41 PM
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I dont, and i scoff at the idea. But deep-down i know the real reason i discredit them is that i dont like my sign, Pisces. If i had a really Badass sign id probably roll with it. Not genuinely believe in it, but just enjoy the predictions. As for girls, i dont know tbh. If i had to guess id say most dont think its science, but they like the idea that their personality or fate is determined by their birth date and suspend their disbelief for fun.
/r/seduction04/03/17 12:34 AM
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i'm glad you understand, and i was 16 when i originally posted, but today is my birthday and i am now 17. as for why i know about this stuff, and more importantly how i learned it - i think the primary factor is the onward march of time. the technology and social change. As you said the internet is an extremely valuable tool that holds the wealth of pretty much all human knowledge, so if its been done i can find it on here. i spend a lot of time thinking about this stuff and researching it and r…
/r/seduction02/03/17 10:23 PM
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If we're going to run with the assumption that women are the same offline as they are online. you shouldnt be assuming this. at all. think about it: any guy, no matter how nervous or insecure or lacking in confidence he is can msg a girl online, but you have to have at least some balls to do it in real life. and online, a guy from miles away can connect with you, whereas in real life you have to be physically near them, girls are bombarded by guys online, and because of this they get to be 1000x…
/r/seduction01/03/17 06:45 PM
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that's an indication you still care, imo you should keep pushing, no matter how painful it is. and then if you really feel like its completely hopeless give it one last go, and itll either work (becuase you wont give a single fuck) or it wont at which point its fine to go monk mode. the only time you should become a recluse is if you have tried everything, no longer care, then try once more just to be sure.
/r/seduction01/03/17 06:26 PM
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If you have nothing to lose just go for it. Hit on every girl, and be aggressive and make your Intentions clear. Try this with about 50 women and if you didnt get ANY positive responses, then go monk. May as well give it one last try
/r/seduction01/03/17 04:35 PM
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exactly. not surprised at all.
/r/seduction28/02/17 10:12 PM
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im not trying to say im better than you, im saying i feel bad some guys have gone on much longer than i have without realizing the truth. and what are you talking about my "plan" i never mentioned anything about a "plan" what makes you think im going to college? i never said you need to have an amazing career. you are just making things up. Autism sucks, but you can work around it. it doesn't have to resign you to a life of loneliness. the way i see it, there are three types of guy i know when i…
/r/seduction28/02/17 10:12 PM
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But for science
/r/seduction28/02/17 02:42 AM
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This is exactly what i expected to see clicking open on this post, but it still overwhelms me because for some reason i feel a responsibility to help other dudes get good with women. I don't even do onlime dating, as i understood its drawbacks since i first heard of it. Its not impossible to do well on there, but the odds are terrifying. Imo it isnt worth the effort it would take, and your energy would be better invested elsewhere. It also speaks volumes to how true the statement is "men don't u…
/r/seduction28/02/17 02:40 AM
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Youve given me a term describe exactly how i am "anxious extrovert" thanks. And to answer. Your question: stop trying to lead them, and just go where you would like and do what you want (of course invite them, dont ignore them) . They will either follow or they have a different vision to you.
/r/seduction27/02/17 03:06 AM
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he's not better than you. the way i look at it he is luckier. lets assume you are the same age, because if he is older then you can attribute it to more time and experience. he just got luckier. you can get to where he is at, but he just got there before you because you had more obstacles to overcome.
/r/seduction26/02/17 06:37 PM
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I think the secret to feeling good without those things is lack of giving a fuck. its a difficult art to master, but it works.
/r/seduction26/02/17 06:26 PM
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i would put my girlfriends feelings before that of my friends. because my friends dont really need my support as much, however when it comes to plans, whichever plan was made first i stick to. im not ditching my girlfriends date to hang out with the lads and vice versa
/r/seduction26/02/17 04:25 PM
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Wasnt a "pickup" because it wasnt in a bar. It was just me having a casual conversation with a girl i work with who was hot. She opened up to me about how terribly her mother treated her and i in turn told her how my mother treated me. The fact that we could so closely relate on this pain held draw her close to me and massively increased the Comfort aspect.
/r/seduction26/02/17 06:34 AM
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I feel your pain. Obce happened to me and i tokdthe friend ofmine "l iked her first abd i introduced her to you! Im shy and i might have not made it clear enough but i wabted to date her" i expected him to be like "ah sorry man, ill try to introduce you to her friends and maybe youll act more quickly next time" what he actually said was "i knew you were into her. I just didnt care" i thought about this for a bit and then realized he completely disrespected me intentionally and he was not a good …
/r/seduction26/02/17 04:37 AM
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exactly i have a friend who is the same.
/r/seduction25/02/17 03:33 PM
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i dont like the social media scene but facebook is essential to survive in modern society in my opinion. i keep my account up to date.
/r/seduction24/02/17 03:54 PM
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always avoid rape. R - religion A - abortion P - politics E - economics
/r/seduction24/02/17 03:52 PM
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dont give away secrets like this. the women will catch on if every guy uses our hacks
/r/seduction24/02/17 12:20 PM
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interesting... im no expert but id just say they want you to hook up with their friend, but much deeper i can think of.
/r/seduction24/02/17 12:14 PM
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i agree, it's funny because i see so many people sying muscles arent attractive and women prefer skinny guys. bullshit. maybe they'd prefer a skinny guy over someone who roided out but just nice toned muscle? they cant get enough of that.
/r/seduction24/02/17 12:02 PM
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It depends if you actually want to be friends with her or not. thats it. i think anything beyond that is overthinking. if you would be cool with just being her friend and hanging out with her, then just say "yeah im cool with just being friends" but if you were only interested in dating her just say "sorry but i was looking for something more than friends"
/r/seduction24/02/17 11:51 AM
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not sure if this helps, but first imagine the interaction going well in your head. dont imagine any specific phrases or sentences you plan to say, that will make it seem forced, but just imagine yourself walking up to her and comfortably talking and her smiling back at you for a while. then just go for it. dont think of it as "im gonna get myself a date with her" just talk. im not sure where you're from but where im from people in public fall into 2 categories: those who keep to themselves, and …
/r/seduction24/02/17 11:49 AM
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i try and get her number when i feel its appropriate, i dont set a time limit, but ideally i would get it after speaking to a girl once. its difficult to gauge when its appropriate in a school setting though, so thats why it varies. what i like to do with girls at school is aproach them about something school related, then steer the conversation to more personal and interesting topics, then usually one or both of us has something to be getting on with, so the interaction is cut short and then i …
/r/seduction24/02/17 11:01 AM
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Social status, income level, confidence, and even facial attractiveness supersede height any day of the week. that's my point. not that height is completely irrelevant to all women, but there is nothing you can do about it so you shouldnt dwell on it.
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:41 AM
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so im guessing that you lost your eyesight just before i said its easier said than done?
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:40 AM
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i dont know for sure but it sounds like it has to do with the height of women. it sounds like they are taller in Germany. most girls i know are not over 5"4 if they are they are seen as tall. they average at around 5"2 to give you perspective. I've never met a girl taller than me face to face.
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:39 AM
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im not gonna tell you it has no effect, some women just like tall guys more, but dont let it hold you back at all, there is guys shorter than you who are pussy slayers. trust me.
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:33 AM
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exactly, last girl i was into went with another guy who was 6"3 and im 6" and she never said that she was into him more because of his height, but thats how I felt about it for a while. she was somewhere in the range of 5"4 - 5"7 btw. There is always someone taller than you, and your height isnt the be all end all of attraction, far from it in fact. Even though im fairly tall and plenty of shorter guys wish they were my height so they could be more attractive, but the grass is always greener.
/r/seduction24/02/17 10:27 AM
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this is why i have trust issues. this girl sees no reason why her bf would have a problem with her hanging out alone with a guy who was flirting with her, and wants to date her? really? sounds like this girl isnt loyal, and her boyfriend maybe a dick as you said. its hard to tell here but she is either trying to bait you into the friend zone to use you as a back up/emotional dumpster/ leach attention from or is into you and is considering cheating on her boyfriend with you or cutting it off with…
/r/seduction23/02/17 11:23 PM
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one of my major problems is when anyone starts laughing and i dont know why (even if they never even saw me) i assume they are laughing at me and i did something embarrassing and check myself. 99% of the time im not doing something embarrassing but it throws me off and makes me feel insecure for a minute.
/r/seduction23/02/17 08:35 PM
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im lmfao mate you said " i found it on the floor"
/r/seduction23/02/17 08:23 PM
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dunno man. i dont try to rush to get a number and I'm not afraid of a girl rejecting me so much as other people knowing about it and mocking me.
/r/seduction23/02/17 08:21 PM
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i'm still in HS so maybe its more relevant for me, but i try to keep my accounts looking in good condition. dont go out of your way to brag about how great your life is on there, and dont go completely overboard and get addicted to social media like some people do. On my facebook for example, i have a decent profile pic that i would keep permanently, unless something about you changes, for example i recently changed mine because i got a new hairstyle. its hard to put into words what it is i mean…
/r/seduction23/02/17 07:19 PM
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honestly i dont know what flirting is at all. i dont know how to do it and the only times ive realized a girl is flirting with me is when they were basically begging for my dick. a lot of guys have a problem of assuming every woman is into them when they are just begin friendly but i think i have the opposite issue: i assume they are being friendly even if they are flirting
/r/seduction23/02/17 07:10 PM
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i'd say dont worry about it too much girls arent gonna spit on you for having braces. use your time with braces to gain practice. talk to as many girls as possible without worrying about the outcome. dont get annoyed if you dont get laid or dont get the number, its fine while you have braces.you should talk to hot girls especially, and eventually you'll get good at it, as with all things in life. try not to get frustrated if you feel like you are the only one not getting girls. im 16 (17 next we…
/r/seduction23/02/17 07:07 PM
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you're correct, but there's also comes a point where there's some girls who are too small for you. im 6" and i was talking to this girl who was 4"10 and it was kinda weird? it had the same effect you're talking about but reversed, like she was intimidated automatically because i towered over her. she jokingly said "you're gonna have to bend down, i cant hear you from all the way up there"
/r/seduction21/02/17 10:06 PM
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yea, at the time i wa just thinking "it'll make it funny and we'll laugh" and "it'll set me apart from the rest of the guys who've approached her saying things like you're beautiful" but hindsight's a bitch.
/r/seduction21/02/17 10:02 PM
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there's this one guy i talk to about rap all the time, but he's kinda a shut in and lies too far away from me to hang out on a regular basis.
/r/seduction21/02/17 09:51 PM
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what is barnes and noble?
/r/seduction21/02/17 09:17 PM
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that's really solid advice actually. ill start lifting weights in my frees at school. i usually just sit around and chat anyway so its not like im missing out on studying.
/r/seduction21/02/17 09:16 PM
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this guy i know is 5"2 and a complete pussy slayer. (I've posted about this guy before) his body and looks arent stunning, but his charisma is like nothing I've ever witnessed. thats how he does it. he is 17/M btw. which is relevant because its often said that younger girls are more shallow in general, but he still has girls all over him
/r/seduction21/02/17 08:29 PM
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How the fuck is your anxiety worse than mine but you are fucking 3 women at once and i cant even get a friend to talk to....
/r/seduction20/02/17 11:38 PM
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I highly doubt that these women are rejecting you solely because of your height - unless you're going after girls that are ridiculously taller than you. Its probably a combination of other factors and your insecurity about your height. i know a guy who is 5"2 and an absolute pussy slayer. he's unstoppable, he's fairly good looking (nothing special though) and has an average physique (not fat, not ripped). Many girls will approach him first, he's that attractive. I honestly dont know how he odes …
/r/seduction20/02/17 08:19 PM
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yep, learned that the hard way, but i was extremely drunk so my judgement was impaired.
/r/seduction20/02/17 08:10 PM
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16, never been on a date.
/r/seduction20/02/17 07:56 PM
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the last girl i opened to in a party i was very drunk and told her she was shit at beer pong. which was true. i thought it would set a light hearted tone for the interaction but she took it personally.
/r/seduction20/02/17 07:54 PM
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maybe its because im fairly tall (6 foot) but i always find it insane that some guys think its impossible to think that a girl could be attracted to them because of their height. it just doesn't seem like a factor to me.... it feels like i should be laughing at that: "so she isnt into you?" "yea im only 5'6" what? that seems crazy to me. especially so when the guy isnt that small and the girls he's going for are still smaller than him. unless youre under 5 feet i dont see how it could be a major…
/r/seduction20/02/17 02:01 PM
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yea, that's fine, im the same as you. what i mean is it's rude and entitled to not even consider hanging out with someone because you aren't as attracted to their race. if a black woman was attractive and into me i wouldnt turn her away, even if its not my preference. so no, preferring a certain skin colour doesnt make you racist but being an ignorant asshole to people because you arent attracted to their skin colour does.
/r/seduction19/02/17 06:34 PM
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you're right, but i dont understand how some guys who aren't physically stunning get girls so easily when they aren't that confident and definitely couldnt be described as loving themself. also its easier said than done, not by you telling us, i mean its easy to tell your self you good enough and that you love yourself, but its hard to make yourself believe it fully - especially when you have so many flaws you're reminded of constantly and no one to rely on. there's also the struggle of not real…
/r/seduction18/02/17 10:22 PM
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in a club you aren't trying to win a competition i dont really think about it just move to the music. girls are attracted to you if you can let loose and just dance. instant display of confidence. the average girl isnt gonna look off to the side and see a guy awkwardly standing there and think "he looks fun, i should flirt with him"
/r/seduction18/02/17 09:12 PM
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what happened to the whole "it doesnt mater what you say, its how you say it and the person its coming from"
/r/seduction18/02/17 09:08 PM
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yeah, im cool with that. nah sorry, i was looking for something more than friends. how to pick: think about whether you want to be her friend or not.
/r/seduction18/02/17 09:05 PM
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didnt read your whole post, but i'll share this anecdote: Im white, my best friend is black. at one point, not too long ago we both believed that the other of us had it easier when it comes to women. He thought that girls would be more interested in white guys because it's more "normal" and its "expected" and i thoguht the opposite, the average girl would be more interested in a black guy because he's more "interesting" and "different". we were both wrong, only stuck up girls will say dumb shit …
/r/seduction18/02/17 07:55 PM
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dude get out of your head you just asked us if you can get an attractive girl at 10lbs less weight. the answer is OF COURSE.
/r/seduction18/02/17 07:49 PM
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i dont really have anyone to talk to that i can trust and going to my GP id just feel like a mug. walking in and just being like "so yeah I'm nervous around people and im kinda sad because of it." just feels like something you dont say.
/r/seduction16/02/17 09:58 PM
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awkward? unlikely. but you can change that. average looking? of course lol. i've seen some pretty disturbing entities with gorgeous women.
/r/seduction16/02/17 06:41 PM
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i wouldnt mention it. wouldnt lie about it either. but if if a girl told me she'd had sex with 83 guys i wouldnt be happy about it. thats just an insane number to me, and would make me think that she just wants sex and thats not what im after
/r/seduction14/02/17 09:15 PM
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i agree. never been one for online dating at all. seems kinda fake and "cheating" in a way, but in a weird way where it amplifies the power dynamic where women have control.
/r/seduction13/02/17 07:53 PM
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she seems interested if you ask me. meet up with her again, see what happens
/r/seduction13/02/17 07:20 PM
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this often confuses me how other guys who haven't put any energy into "learning" how to get women actually do it. some its obvious they were just raised in a certain way and are physically attractive so it just runs smooth for them. then there's these pessimistic antisocial ugly guys who put no effort into themselves and don't seem especially confident who manage anyway. those baffle me. There's this guy at my school who never spoke to anyone, was a complete social outcast in every way an accord…
/r/seduction12/02/17 09:56 PM
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i'd just give her the D. she's probably expecting it and on V day you know everyone in a relationship is fucking so you feel left out of you aren't.
/r/seduction12/02/17 09:41 PM
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I dont think that social media presence matters that much but I've noticed that a lot of guys my age get girls using snapchat, so that could be worth a shot.
/r/seduction12/02/17 09:37 PM
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truth bomb right here.
/r/seduction12/02/17 07:55 PM
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i can't im 16, but thanks.
/r/seduction12/02/17 01:37 PM
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i usually give them another chance if they flake first time, but second time its over. if she becomes interested in me suddenly and tries to set it up with me, i'll agree though - that happens more than you think because she is trying to test you an control you, and actually does want to hang out with you, so she'll panic if you start ignoring her.
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:45 PM
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damn i didnt even write that originally lol
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:24 PM
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i didnt think of it in that much depth before, but now that i think of it, you're right. he didnt respond to my texts earlier and he'll be drunk now so i wont bother. He hasn't really been my close friend for about a year now, and he has been a complete dick since he started dating her which was 3 months ago. i can't comment on what her ex is like as i've never met him but i wouldnt be surprised. i am pretty confident he took her virginity, but that isnt confirmed
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:13 PM
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i tried to tell him she was shifty, but he took it personally and thats might be why he didnt re-invite me to his party.
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:00 PM
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oh yeah, he's totally pussy whipped. its weird though because he's basically her bitch, and acts like a complete wimp around her, but when she isnt there he's a badman who thinks he's better than everyone else.
/r/seduction11/02/17 10:57 PM
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oh yeah, he's totally pussy whipped. its weird though because he's basically her bitch, and acts like a complete wimp around her, but when she isnt there he's a badman who thinks he's better than everyone else.
/r/seduction11/02/17 10:54 PM
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that's what i thought, but she says they ended on good terms and are just distant friends now.
/r/seduction11/02/17 10:38 PM
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this sounds like a chance to meet new friends and girls is being handed to you on a silver platter.
/r/seduction11/02/17 09:24 PM
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you're right, but my only hobbies are anti social. I hate sports, i'd love to start going to the gym but the only gyms in my area are swarming with ppl i know and dont like.
/r/seduction11/02/17 09:20 PM
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I love a nice round butt, but huge? fuck no thats gross. like nicki minaj is not hot imo
/r/seduction11/02/17 09:05 PM
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There will be more parties soon but i wont be invited to ANY of them if I leave this group.
/r/seduction11/02/17 09:04 PM
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i try socialize more but i don't know where to meet new people. school is bust because i know everyone there and they're all either in that group or dont like me. My only hesitation with leaving this group for good is that i wont get invited to any party, ever and i wont talk to anyone, ever. besides like, the cashier in a store. its not like there is another group i can slowly transition into hanging out with more.
/r/seduction11/02/17 09:03 PM
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one-itis is what we call a condition where you attach yourself to a girl, unnecessarily. you convince yourself that you are in love, but really you are just desperate. you can cure it by improving your self esteem, social skills, flirting with lots of different girls, generally improving your confidence etc. I used to suffer from it. knew a girl for a week and thought she was gonna be my wife. devastated when she said she didnt want to see me anymore. its hard to describe what it really is, but …
/r/seduction11/02/17 08:59 PM
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it may seem stupid, but it would really fuck me up right now to have a girl n my life. I need to sort myself out first.
/r/seduction11/02/17 07:50 PM
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don't know if you'll see this, but i said i'd update you. well, im not going to the party. the cunt disinvited me an hour before i was due to set off. so i was ready in my outfit and everything. coulda told me a week ago he didnt want me there.
/r/seduction11/02/17 06:20 PM
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its either what meowfix said or that she got what she was looking for and doesnt really want sex after that. i'd assume the optimistic one though
/r/seduction11/02/17 05:55 PM
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I know you dont want to hear this, but you aren't in love. you just have a crippling case of oneitis (the worst ive ever seen, in fact). the only advice we can give you here is move on, live your life for yourself. If you are looking for validation that you're right to still chase her, this subreddit is not the place to find it.
/r/seduction11/02/17 02:47 PM
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imo yes, if u want a hug. girls hug everyone, so its not like they're ever gonna deny it unless you're a complete freak or they hate you. Hugging isnt really crossing a line of any sort, even if she has no interest whatsoever she wont thing you're weird for asking fro a hug
/r/seduction11/02/17 02:43 PM
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right. i need to eat less carbs then (i barely consume any sugar)
/r/seduction11/02/17 02:24 PM
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that's where im stuck then because i have been eating healthily for the past three years and i haven't lost any weight. A lot of my friends eat like trash but they're skinny. i always put it down to the fact that they exercised more...
/r/seduction11/02/17 01:59 PM
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thanks for the advice, but i have a question: will exercising burn fat evenly? for example if i ride my bike a lot will i lose fat everywhere or just on my legs? will you gain any muscle from this type of exercise?
/r/seduction09/02/17 10:20 PM
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in this case you are definitely in the friend zone, in my opinion. The way you know is if she leads you on, so to speak. she knows you are interested in her and she keeps you interested by giving you enough to say "what if" to yourself. many guys make the mistake of thinking that anytime a girl is friendly and not flirty that you are being friend zoned. the reason they act this way is because they like enjoy your attention and company, but dont consider you worthy of dating them. I hate to break…
/r/seduction09/02/17 08:04 PM
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thanks bro, i will. i'll post on this thread on sunday morning about what happened at the party. i always have fun at parties, but the longer i have to think about what i did, the more i realize how much i made a fool of myself. I try not to let that discourage me though.
/r/seduction08/02/17 09:30 PM
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I feel your pain. i live in an impoverished city and most girls are either trashy hoes or snobby out of towners that im too poor for. keep searching.
/r/seduction08/02/17 08:42 PM
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i dont have an active social life, never have. I've been working recently to expand my social circle and its been working so far. i thought i was an introvert, but now im not sure because i do enjoy socializing, and doing things with friends, or even strangers, but im just not that good at it an kinda awkward. to answer your question, yes, its always worth trying.
/r/seduction07/02/17 09:33 PM
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it seems obvious to me that its the first choice. it's difficult for me to be positive about things, and i struggle a lot with internal conflicts like this, so i feel your pain. just don't give up. no matter what keep striving and whether you get laid after 1000 approaches or 3 it doesnt matter. you keep talking about "value" but in my eyes the only one without value is the one who wont try, or gives up. if thats you its like you dont even think you have value, or hope to improve your value. im …
/r/seduction07/02/17 09:10 PM
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My goal isnt the number of women, its just how good i feel about myself, how happy i am. cant be quantified but it works for me.
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:16 PM
1

if you're in a conversation with her, but she needs to serve more customers just say something like "maybe we can keep talking later. when do you finish your shift?" it doesnt need to start with a number or a date
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:14 PM
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fuck it i say. dont be too aggressive though, and dont try it with every girl there, itll make it too obvious what you're doing
/r/seduction06/02/17 09:15 PM
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being 5'5" is nothing my friend is 5'3" and is a certified pussy slayer.
/r/seduction06/02/17 08:44 PM
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I cant fuck her atm obviously because time of month well...you could. but that's up to you.
/r/seduction06/02/17 08:30 PM
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depends what restaurant. if its really fancy and you wear suits and shit then hell no. if its something like McDonald's...well i dont think you would have said "restaurant". if its something in betweeen, like a TI fridays then id go for it. those mid range food places usually have a fun type of vibe anyway so flirting between employees wouldnt be frowned upon.
/r/seduction06/02/17 07:46 PM
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i think you did good. its entirely possible that she was just nervous, or isnt used to having sex early in a relationship, or numerous other factors could go into the fact that you didnt get laid that night besides you fucking it up. I'd say be patient, but keep acting the way you are with her. you'll definitely know if she isnt interested.
/r/seduction05/02/17 11:35 PM
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i wear it everyday. It may seem over powering to some, but its necessary for me. i have a very strong natural smell, which isnt disgusting...but its not sexy.
/r/seduction05/02/17 11:31 PM
1

based on what people have commented on here, i think i 'm fairly outcome independent, i dont get really annoyed if i dont get a girls number, and if a girl isnt into me, it wouldnt ruin my day or anything. sure i'd be a little bummed out for a minute but thats it.
/r/seduction05/02/17 11:28 PM
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this is a problem of mine. one time there was a girl who was apparently into me but she got pissed off with me and found another guy because i wasnt properly listening. i just find it extremely difficult to focus on anything.
/r/seduction05/02/17 04:43 PM
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you have developed a worrying case of oneitis. forget her. move on and act more quickly next time you see a girl you like
/r/seduction05/02/17 01:55 PM
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just some random bitch at my school
/r/seduction05/02/17 01:29 PM
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you didn't specify what words you used but i think not going was a good call. if she changed at the last minute that's rude and if you still went that would set the precedent that she can treat you like that. even if her intentions were good. i would've personally said something like "well if you're busy with your friends we can meet up another time" and if she insisted on knowing why you wouldn't go i'd say "I was expecting it to just be us and im not ready to meet your friends yet"
/r/seduction05/02/17 01:04 PM
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if shes cool with sharing abed wiv u then you're prolly good to go for it. she wants the D.
/r/seduction05/02/17 12:41 PM
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true, but it's still overwhelming and before i see a post like that i think "im getting pretty good at this i know so much now" and then i realize i know basically nothing.
/r/seduction05/02/17 11:53 AM
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what she said about my posting on social media was "look at him, the quiet guy thinks he's a comedian now" and what she said about my hair was " oooh on the pull now are we? gonna need more than a new haircut to get a girl" and i looked away because i was mad i couldnt make eye contact. i then had the idea to purposefully look from side to side and behind her like i was looking for someone, she turned around and said "what?" so i said "im looking for someone who gives a fuck"
/r/seduction04/02/17 11:35 PM
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if she' not 10/10 id still go for it, but if she isn't attractive at all id say its a waste of time. just say she isn't the right one for you and you wouldn't want to lead her on by dating her.
/r/seduction04/02/17 10:13 PM
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thanks. it came to be my internet name when i was playing an fps with a friend and we would mockingly talked in over the top military language down the mic and there was a player who was obviously a female in the lobby. a guy said "omg a gril is in the lobby" down the mic. we had this player cornered in a room so he said "prepare unit fro penetration of room containing hostile of codename : grill" and I accidentally said "grill penetration unit going in" as i charged the room, guns blazing
/r/seduction04/02/17 10:09 PM
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yeah, this guy knows what he's talking about. i can tell because when someone offers really good advice it usually makes me feel really depressed because i realize how utterly clueless i am.
/r/seduction04/02/17 09:30 PM
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i have realized i was socially awkward and need to do something about it, but its an ongoing process. haven't had any results yet.
/r/seduction04/02/17 08:25 PM
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damn that sucks. that story is the type of shit i fear about thinking about the future. i wish i could offer some advice but im really not qualified
/r/seduction04/02/17 08:19 PM
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your story is identical to mine, but ive only been on this journey for a couple of months now. I have spent a while pondering the same questions and this is what i have come up with so far: I think it has to do with the fact that the "social pressure" is high if you know what i mean, also the fact that if you have been surrounded by the same group of people for many years they have very rigid opinions and expectations of you and if you have been seen as quiet and awkward it shocks them and makes…
/r/seduction04/02/17 06:57 PM
1

want my advice? grow some balls and go for it. whats realistically the worst that can happen? you waste a day of your life? if you cancel it then you'll think "what if?" for ages. trust me. not to mention that this girl will probably think you aren't interested and/or a pussy.
/r/seduction04/02/17 03:29 PM
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"sexual threat" wtf bro. that sounds really rapey. stop with that. be less "sexually dangerous" and instead be "sexually interesting".
/r/seduction04/02/17 02:56 PM
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its easier said than done, but keep trying and hopefully it'll ingrain itself into your mind, like any other learned behaviour
/r/seduction04/02/17 02:50 PM
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the younger you are the higher chance you have of her being okay with it. for example i am 16, and hopefully my time will come soon, and i will tell her. but if i was 30? nope.
/r/seduction04/02/17 02:47 PM
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i went to a party on saturday and this dude i was chillin with was an absolute beast, he got two girls at once, and one of them he didnt even say a word to, she approached him and said she was into him and tried to make out with him. he got both of their numbers. he wasnt doing anything special, i just think that either naturally, or through a lot of experience some guys just have an aura, if that makes sense, that draws girls in.
/r/seduction30/01/17 03:28 PM
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i dont even play video games anymore. haven't for a few months. the time that i used to spend playing games i now spend exercising.
/r/seduction28/01/17 01:51 PM
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i was coping until the end of last year. i had a job and there was a girl i was really into there and i got so close to dating her that in my head it was a done deal. it felt too good to be true and it turns out i was right because she was talking to multiple guys at that time (she didnt tell me that) and one day told me that she was dating another guy. so by christmas i had lost my job and that girl. then i started failing school when i came back from the holidays and thats how i came to be at …
/r/seduction27/01/17 09:51 PM
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i did have a job, but they let me go because they were cutting down on staff. i decided to leave searching for another job until i after christmas and i have been applying to different places ever since. there's this one place this guy i know works at and he recommended me to them so i applied, but this was about 4 days ago and they haven't called me yet. funnily enough im really good at the whole job interview thing. my last employer said he wasnt looking for under 18s but he gave me a chance a…
/r/seduction27/01/17 09:39 PM
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no, not at all. why?
/r/seduction27/01/17 09:12 PM
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being a virgin at 16 is absolutely normal. I didnt actually kiss a girl until I was 19 because I was an outsider, a depressed kid with little to no friends and no self confidence. that sounds awfully familiar and i keep telling myself its normal but i was basically pushed out of my friend circle because they were all dating and having sex and i cant get a girlfriend. part of my problem at the minute is that im always arguing with myself, and always caught between two different mindsets. the main…
/r/seduction27/01/17 09:01 PM
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yeah, i should have mentioned im from the UK. and what do you mean by self medicate? you mean with alcohol etc.? no i dont do that. i do try to socialise more at school, but i just end up talking to the same 10 people, i cant really go up to anyone else and just start talking to them because im a stranger to them and it would be weird, also those 10 people have very rigid opinions of me and i try to act more confident and they dont like that and try to tell me that im not being myself. transferi…
/r/seduction27/01/17 08:45 PM
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i dont feel comfortable talking to my parents and i dont really have any other relatives that i could contact. i dont know if the school counselor is available to me... im not part of the main school, im in the sixth form which is in the same building but is completely separate in terms of rules and resources etc.
/r/seduction27/01/17 08:11 PM
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uhhh i dunno. i live in the UK. prolly should have mentioned that
/r/seduction27/01/17 08:00 PM
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but dont you have to be diagnosed with a mental illness? is it expensive? im 16 and dont have a lot of money
/r/seduction27/01/17 07:30 PM
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how do you get a therapist?
/r/seduction27/01/17 07:26 PM
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everything. i have no friends. i am a virgin. i am desperately failing school. i have no energy to do anything about these problems. i am unhealthy. i am stupid. i dont enjoy anything anymore, none of my hobbies interest me like they used to. i am an emotional wreck. i dont know what i want to do with my life. i feel worthless. i lack confidence.
/r/seduction27/01/17 07:02 PM
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i have all these besides the low sex drive...lol
/r/seduction27/01/17 06:27 PM
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you have improved yourself bro. you just have to wait, keep doing everything that you're doing right now and eventually itll happen, and once you get "back in the game" youll be on a roll.
/r/seduction27/01/17 06:16 PM
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that's exactly my point
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:34 PM
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how? i study at a sixth form 15 hrs a week, need to do 25 hrs out of school studying per week to pass and i work 26 hrs a week at my job. thats a total of 66 hrs just working... counting sleep and other things every human must do, and the time it takes me to go from school to home to work i have basically no free time - and little energy. on top of this i have recently started a new exercise regime to try and get in shape, and i had to sacrifice my life long passion of video games altogether.
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:34 PM
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look, i dont have the time to learn how to dance, and im 16 its not like i can get into a club anyway.
/r/seduction27/01/17 01:07 AM
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i agree that you should start saying yes more to get out of your comfort zone, but at the same time DO NOT become a yes man, it makes you look extremely weak, you have to have opinions, you have to have boundaries in order to be TRULY respected. for example, i am absolutely not going to any dance classes, i am not just going to say yes for the sake of it. what you need to do instead is learn when to say no and when to say yes.
/r/seduction26/01/17 07:48 PM
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thanks for the advice
/r/seduction26/01/17 06:45 PM
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I know this is gonna make me sound like a dick, but at least you can go to a party... and you have a group of supportive female friends too. i dont even have a family to talk to. count your blessings and remember they're just people too, no harm done if you don't get a girls number - they dont go to parties and expect guys to ignore their presence.
/r/seduction21/01/17 09:00 PM
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why aren't you confident that women are being honest with you? i know for a fact that some girls i have spoken to, that told me they had a boyfriend were single. if she's uncomfortable and she mentioned a boyfriend then you failed a million other signs ago and you should have already known. im not able to read body language or understand the subtext or meaning in someone's tone when talking. The key to this is knowing that you can't just sidle up and talk your way into bed. i never approach with…
/r/seduction21/01/17 03:09 PM
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really? its the oldest trick in the book
/r/seduction21/01/17 02:06 PM
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the way you described yourself you're in a better position than me, and i can do it, so you can. you haven't failed - just not succeeded yet
/r/seduction20/01/17 08:46 PM
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that's my view exactly
/r/seduction20/01/17 08:08 PM
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some people can't handle the truth and don't want to learn. that's why we're here and they aren't we already have the advantage in that alone.
/r/seduction20/01/17 08:07 PM
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that's good, i'll try that next time
/r/seduction20/01/17 05:48 PM
2

i'm not okay with it though.
/r/seduction20/01/17 05:45 PM
2

if she actually does have a boyfriend, im not interested in competing with someone she's already with (if she's single and other guys are interested in her i'll compete). either i dont stand a chance or she isn't loyal enough to be my girlfriend anyway.
/r/seduction20/01/17 03:49 PM
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what i'd do: make a post on social media saying something like "so this girl i approached the other day is apparently talking shit about me, exaggerating the story of what happened for likes on social media. pathetic." just for anyone who's interested, and then if anyone you know asks you specifically, i'd say "some petty bitch I talked to at the mall is spreading rumors about me" i see that this other guy on here also said you should post about it on social media, but i'm personally more aggres…
/r/seduction20/01/17 03:09 PM
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they were drinking, and the uncle was the most drunk there, and then he asked my mate what football team he supported and it turns out that he likes a rival team of the uncle's favorite team and considering he was drunk he thought it was a good idea to challenge him to a fight over it.
/r/seduction19/01/17 03:51 PM
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lol no. i mean it is relevant but no girl is gonna think "eww he listens to that genre" the only way it could go wrong is if you are both heavily invested in the same genre, and you like a particular artist she doesn't from that genre, but that is counteracted by the fact that you like the same genre to begin with. and no, listening to drake isnt gonna instantly make you get girls. whatever music you like, use it to your advantage: if you like a very popular artist or genre, like drake, then the…
/r/seduction19/01/17 03:47 PM
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im sorry but that's hilarious
/r/seduction18/01/17 03:05 PM
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if i were you id go back to that bar and find that bartender and tell her you were interested as well, and id get in contact with her asap. the clocks ticking, you have her attention and she doesn't think you're interested right now, so pretty soon she's gonna move on. also if you do get in contact with her soon, you know you have the high ground as you know she is interested in you, so drawing her in further should be a cake walk.
/r/seduction18/01/17 03:04 PM
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talked to her. turns out she has a boyfriend that goes to a different school.
/r/seduction11/01/17 06:01 PM
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but should they be judged if they base a guy's worth on the amount of criminal acts he's committed? or if they bully girls less attractive than them?
/r/seduction11/01/17 06:00 PM
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fair enough, but what do u mean by out of school activities?
/r/seduction10/01/17 10:19 PM
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not helpful but I suppose your right
/r/seduction10/01/17 10:16 PM
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don't hesitate bro. I say go for it, its been 10 days
/r/seduction10/01/17 07:59 PM
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good save brother
/r/seduction10/01/17 05:29 PM
1

honestly I wouldn't even say you've "won" when you get a date, if you're looking for a serious relationship and not just a hook up i'd say the point you win is when she "claims" you. I could go on all day about the signs a girl has claimed you, but you'll know if it happens, they're not subtle about it.
/r/seduction09/01/17 05:58 PM
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good idea, thanks man.
/r/seduction08/01/17 09:50 PM
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good luck man
/r/seduction08/01/17 01:24 PM
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my school's quite large, so I'm sure there's groups of girls I haven't spoken to, but dating, or even talking to the lower yeas is frowned upon (I'm in 6th form, so everything is different, we just share a building with the lower years) and girls in my year don't really make themselves approachable, they stick together in huge groups of 15+ people and I wouldn't have the confidence to flirt with a girl with so many of her friends nearby and I don't have any wingmen
/r/seduction08/01/17 01:12 PM
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thanks man, ill take your advice into account for the future. I feel like due to my mild autism (hate mentioning it tbh, makes me feel like I'm using it as a crutch) I need to use different tactics, sure it makes things hard, but I just need to work around it and twist the situation to my advantage. for example, the fact that Its almost impossible for me to know what something is trying to get across to me in a conversation (unless they say it very directly) causes me some problems coz it makes …
/r/seduction08/01/17 02:46 AM
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I try to talk to as many people as I can in school, but the cliques are pretty set in stone at this point so extended friendships are almost impossible to form, if I catch someone alone tho I always exchange a few words
/r/seduction07/01/17 11:57 PM
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also I'm still on the fence about this whole no fap thing ive heard about, don't know much about it, the whole energy and time conservation thing makes sense, and ill probably give up porn entirely but I dont know if I can truly give up masturbation entirely, the sexual frustration would kill me.
/r/seduction07/01/17 11:56 PM
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ive signing up for that gym beginning next week, nothing too rigorous, just want to get in shape, plus the dude who got me into that gym seems like a nice dude, potential new friend in him.
/r/seduction07/01/17 11:52 PM
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yea id say don't spam her but try to have at least one good text convo w her before the date, it should make her more comfortable on that date and advance the relationship more quickly as a result, plus itll make sure you're on her mind and ive always found if you can make a girl think about you she'll just spiral out of control in her head and make herself like you more without you having to do anything (if that makes sense)
/r/seduction07/01/17 11:47 PM
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thanks man, not sure what happened with the numbering tho, I numbered them 1-10 lol
/r/seduction06/01/17 11:34 PM
1

sounds to me like she is interested. I'm no expert but still.
/r/seduction06/01/17 10:48 PM
1

I have definitely thought about making beats before, id like too a lot actually, just don't know where to start. I'm good at recognising patterns and picking out the different sounds and how its all structured together. I don't know if you're british or not so ill explain how school works here: you have first preschool age 2-5 which is optional, then first school 5-11, high school 11-16 and then from 16-18 you have to choose from 6th form, college or an apprenticeship and I chose 6th form (it wa…
/r/seduction06/01/17 09:28 PM
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yeah ive already started work on getting to know more people at school and I'm gonna try to change the way I act in front of people. the way ive always gone through life is by staying quiet and out of site so as many people as possible tolerate my presence but its not healthy. what I need to do instead is just speak my mind and be assertive, I'm gonna say things that are stupid or awkward its inevitable with my condition, but it wont matter if I'm not bothered by it
/r/seduction06/01/17 08:52 PM
1

my main interests are video games and rap music. not exactly the best communities to get girls lol. both of these revolve around me being at home alone as there are no rap concerts in my slum of a city or game conventions or anything like that so its hard to find common ground you just kinda have to hope you run into people who share your interests. something Ive been considering doing is getting a gym membership: there are two gyms in my area, one is cheap, kinda dirty and low tech but theres a…
/r/seduction06/01/17 08:33 PM
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you're probably right tbh. I'm kinda autistic and don't really know what people are feeling, thinking or what they mean if they don't say it directly. Recently realised there was a super hot girl that was crazy about me a few years ago, but I was too dumb to notice all the hints she was dropping. ive become a little more aware now though - seriously she used to always try find out what I was doing after school, find any excuse to touch me and people even used to say we should be a couple. but my…
/r/seduction06/01/17 04:43 PM
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what? you say get a fuck buddy like that's an easy thing to do. if I had the confidence to manage that I wouldn't have a problem to begin with...
/r/seduction04/01/17 08:19 PM
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