I have formulated a tactic that relies on a few base principles, namely :

  1. that if you present yourself as attractive and confident, you can assume she is into you
  2. simply being in proximity builds attraction(spending time with them as well as physically being near to them).
  3. No girl is out of your league or out of the equation - except those in relationships.
  4. making it as natural as possible, so she doesn't feel like she is being gamed.

This tactic was made with the purpose of being used by those who are younger and can't game in clubs or prefer to game at college or other settings like this. This tactic is also geared toward those looking for serious relationships, rather than one night stands.

Method:

  1. you approach the girl, whether it is at a party, work or in public with the intention that you want to get to know her as a person. NOT that you want to fuck her or date her, just talk.

  2. you don't flirt, unless she starts flirty behavior, yet.

  3. you get reasonably close to her. not close that you become best friends and it would be awkward to date, but closer than you normally would if you planned on dating her.

  4. you add her to the list of potential girlfriends. having a healthy list of girls you are considering should help eliminate three extremely unattractive behaviors: neediness, oneitis and over availability. im sure you all know that getting overly attached to one girl you just met is a recipe for disaster and neediness makes you weak and puts her on a pedestal. being too available is also unattractive, girls like the idea that other girls like you, even if they are just your friends they subconsciously think "he has the approval and trust of other girls, so he must be worth it". also it makes you seem to have more of an active social life and you arent just at her beck and call all the time.

  5. choose from this list of girls which are your favorites and begin flirting with those ones. subtlety is key, it will be weird if one day your best friends and the next you aggressively flirt with her. if she is unresponsive or it doesnt work out for whatever reason, it doesnt matter! there are other girls on your list and you aren't ever going to be friend zoned because you got to know her as a friend to begin with anyway, and you are fine with continuing in that way. If you feel like you wasted a bunch of time and energy on a girl who wasnt sexually interested in you, then just remind yourself that you gained experience and confidence, just by talking to her.

  6. Once you have dated some of them and been flirty for a while, you should naturally hone in on one that you like especially. you then of course take it to the next level and become exclusive with that girl.

  7. congratulations! you now have a girlfriend! dont be discouraged if you didnt get to this stage on the first "round", just get to know even more girls and repeat the same process, maybe even try use the leverage of your new found female friends to meet even more girls.

so that is my formula. i created this from observing the habits of successful guys my age and reverse engineering their moves. I'd love to hear from you guys if you have any feedback.