First off. Please keep all the she has a boyfriend so avoid her comments away. Second off. Thanks ahead of time to those willing to offer their valid input.
Okay. So this girl at my work I'm talking to and I get a long very well. She seems to enjoy my sense of humor and we're always teasing each other and she's always playfully hitting me when I tease her.
I've always noticed some signs of interest, like her always asking me when she's going to see me at work next, lots of smiling and laughing and she initiates touch with me often. An example is when I was showing her something on my phone not too long ago in a pretty open space, she comes over and is leaning right into me to look at whats on my phone and she stays there leaning against me well after she's already seen what I wanted to show her.
Well anyways. This last week I was speaking to her and ended up getting her number and while she had her phone out and I saw what looked like a picture of her and a guy. I had later questioned her. ( I'm gonna try to include the sub-communication so you can understand how it went.)
Me: "So.... insert name. Do you have a boyfriend"
Her: "Yeah.. I do"
Me: "Ahh.. okay" (While smiling and nodding my head - just putting this detail since it may look to some as though I sounded sad )
Her: (smiles) Why do you want to know?
Me: "Oh. You know. Just wondering. (while smiling and in a playful tone)
Her: "Tell me!"
Me: "Oh. You know. Just wondering.
I then hugged her and told her I'll see her later.
So first off. I do understand that if she's willing to do this to her current boyfriend, she may be willing to do it to me if I was in a romantic relationship with her, but that's not really the plan right now. Also. I feel that she's already one foot out of her relationship with her bf because of other signs she's shown.
Yes. I'm going to go for it cause that's clearly the only way to know for sure. I just wanted to see what you guys think of when a girl never mentions she has a boyfriend, but acts in a flirty manner with you.
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