So.. I have this kind of colleague. She was into me, I wasn't first. I kinda like her for the past several months, but there are times she seems to be interested or not. I was kinoing her, I completely stopped past weeks. Then sme messages me, reacts to all my stories, etc... She's not kinoing me herself, but doesn't react badly to light touches. Now, how to proceed? I do not want a full relationship with herm despite she's an amazing woman/late 40s/

- be more flirty

- be more direct, start with kino again

- stop seducing her completely, wait if she approaches me?

- dont make an idiot of me and leave her as it is

- Im just a nice around guy which she wants to flirt with but no sex?