Should an average looking guy act like he's physically attractive when approaching girls?

throwaway-aa2 · 2018-11-22T11:30:24+00:00

It really depends what you perceive is "acting physically attractive". I'd need to hear your answer, but the trick is just to realize that, even IF you were physically attractive, chicks don't give a shit if you don't have the confidence to go with it. It's not that being physically attractive isn't important, it's that it's a multiplier of your confidence. But 100 x 0 is still 0.

When I approach girls, I know it's going to go well or not well based on how confident I feel. If you need to feel physically attractive to have that confidence where you're "really" staring into their eyes, being playful, having cool, playful, and or sexual conversation, being comfortable closing the proximity between you and the girl... if that requires you to "act like you're physically attractive" then go for it.

And yes it's weird if a below average guy does it, but it's a "good" weird. When you're confident, especially women will try to gauge what you're about, and see where the energy you're putting out comes from. They'll ask you what you do, what your aspirations are, what you like to do for fun. A guy who is confident, but isn't a "pretty boy", a girl has to just assume you're confident for a reason, and if it's not your looks, what is it... whether that be the job you have, the money you make, your long dick, or just you plain having the confidence to talk to many women (which by proxy, means you probably sleep with other women).

Murfdigidy · 2018-11-22T14:18:02+00:00

Yes yes yes!

It actually works better for average looking guys because girls are like, who the heck does this guy think he is? Then they say (in their head) , hmmm how is he so confident, it's kinda sexy.

Playing the role reversal is very effective in the game, going up to a hot girl telling her to stop checking you out it's making me insecure is both funny, not normal, and shows confidence. A very good looking guy absolutely could NOT do this, but an average looking guy can get away with it.

This is exactly how Neil Strauss became a legend in the game. He wasn't Brad Pitt nor Ryan Reynolds he was just confident as fuck and basically made hot girls think he was the shit not them. This is what every guy should strive for, when you approach a hot girl remember one thing and one thing only... You're the catch not them

Kitz-85 · 2018-11-22T20:31:20+00:00

I lurk in this sub and it sounds tough being a guy. Ya’ll are brave, tenacious and intense. I hope it all works out. ✌🏼

Tfiz682 · 2018-11-22T17:46:30+00:00

Fuck the league yo you walk into everything like your balls is dragging on the floor bro ain’t nothing turn a bih on like confidence you go in thinking she’s out your league she’ll play you for a drink and be out

realfrog-eyes33 · 2018-11-22T19:47:31+00:00

Assume attraction and escalate

Manners2210 · 2018-11-22T11:24:27+00:00

How can you “act like you’re physically attractive”? Confidence and acting attractive are completely different things. Confidence is key in all aspects of life. To win at anything, you gotta believe in yourself.

The_411 · 2018-11-26T22:11:09+00:00

Don’t worry about your looks and just approach. If you act out of character women can smell it a mile away. Now if you act like James Bond and it is congruent with being smooth, flirtatious, etc then sure. However, whatever you do it needs to fit in with you normal act because it becomes exhausting to keep up an act.

Senor_Hyde · 2018-11-22T20:06:24+00:00

Confidence is key; looks do not mean much if your confident and she can see it. Make your absence felt not your presence.

Title	Should an average looking guy act like he's physically attractive when approaching girls?
Author	ucantbattleme
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Comments	19
Date	November 22, 2018 11:17 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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