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[–]librkhk 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The obsession with high body counts here is dumb as hell.
[–]TheNextBigCrash 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can tell how insecure everyone here is by how much they feel the need to brag about body count.
It’s not a measure of anything.
[–]kiramdahanett 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
have a lay count of 2
no , the answer is no . you should not commit ( at least for now ) & you should not stop chasing women,
why? you may get the answer when you hit 30+ lays .
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[–]kiramdahanett -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this is the mindset of lonely unexperienced losers & it's not even your fault , it's because of the people around you.
how to know it's the mindset of losers? hit the 30 laycount.
[–]Neither_Chef8062 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This doesn't make any sense. What magic number is 30?
All it could tell you is that sexual experiences come and go. They do, and that's exactly why relationships are a different ballgame.
[–]Great at coke approachSnooHesitations4922 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn't get into a relationship just to build experience points with relationships, if u are hooking up with a quality women u feel compatible with you can always take your time to build a relationship and not jump into it, hence making the relationship authentic.
It's 2022, you shouldn't be seeking commitment at all unless u know u found the rare exception. Most single young women in the u.s. are narcissistic and falsely entitled, and it ain't even all their fault, it is the thousands of weak simpletons putting them on a pedestal instead of treating them as equals. I underestimated how many options they actually have until I asked a couple female friends and they showed me the inboxes on their socials and texts. I thought maybe 100 or so messages a week. It is THOUSANDS PER WEEK. And these girls are AVERAGE looking. They have no choice but to filter the options hence why 95% of women will only consider the top 1% of men, cultivating these social issues, it's a bad situation because like anybody they should go for what they deserve but society made them lose sight of what is good for them and what they actually deserve. This is why even good men that respect the great things about a real commitment, not just fuckboys, are avoiding commitment, now is not the time.
[–]VisionsOfVisions 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You’ve put yourself into a position where you regret either way. This is indicative of a fear of commitment. So just accept that that is who you are and enjoy the next few years of you life. There may come a point in your life where commitment is more attractive to you, but at this stage, you should embrace your free spirit. The “one that got away” was never yours to begin with.
[–]rushopolisOF 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It seems you already know the trade offs. Just make a choice and live with the consequences. No one else can make this decision for you bro.
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No, don't commit but keep her as a girlfriend.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Tough question with no easy answer. As someone years out of college I can tell you, high quality women are rare. If you find one don’t let her go.
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[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Attempting a kiss and getting rejected is NOT letting a good one go. I think you misunderstood. You should have 5 non-negotiable traits to look for in a serious girlfriend.
1) sexual compatibility 2) social compatibility 3) sense of humor/ personality 4) honesty 5) character/ integrity
Do NOT live with, or marry a woman that doesn’t meet all #5. Trust me on this and you’ll thank me later.
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[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If she’s not up for a kiss, then cut your losses. You don’t want a girlfriend that’s super uptight. You’ll spend months trying to f*ck her and when, or if you finally do you’ll discover it wasn’t worth it.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she’s into you she’ll come around, but I wouldn’t waste my time and energy on her rejection.
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