Should I even consider approaching at this point.

Wecanbefriendsnow · 2015-07-07T14:01:00+00:00

Make 10 approaches for every pound you gain.

killaswagyolo420 · 2015-07-07T14:08:27+00:00

As long as your on a program of some kind.. as long as your trying, then you can give it a shot now. When you get rejected, don't fall into the trap of blaming being skinny. Blame how you were when you approached (body language, positive vibe, confidence, authenticity, etc.)

DaygameCoach · 2015-07-07T15:49:39+00:00

YES, approach approach approach. Work on your game! It's better than waiting a year to do it.

gcarl34 · 2015-07-07T13:48:31+00:00

It's worth a shot

cmiovino · 2015-07-07T14:09:37+00:00

Here's the deal with your stature, coming from a 5'11" guy who's 145. We're almost identical.

Yes, I do see 'bros' who are jacked or even just have weight on them, but look more massive and solid having an easier time with girls. It all goes back to looking alpha... and also acting like it.

I would certainly not say to just don't approach. Improve your approach, gain mass, grow, and become what you want. Honestly, we both need to eat more and lift! I have been lifting for about 7-8 years now, but dummy me wasn't eating enough.

Workout and approach. Appearance matters, but being clean and hygienic matters more than mass. Dress well.

B4TheRapture · 2015-07-07T15:52:25+00:00

Approach. It's simply a part of the process. Putting it off as you try to reach a goal like that is simply an excuse. This usually sets a bad precedent, which results in always finding excuses. I experienced this myself from studying pickup while not attempting any real life practice (Even though I knew this was dangerous from the same study). After reading many books and watching and listening to tons of material, I felt ready. And of course I got blown away. I conceded and thought, well I just need to study more. I never made any progress until I started applying principles and excepting that I just need practice. I realized that having the knowledge does nothing when you don't know how to apply it. Being bigger won't automatically make you better with women.

Also, I was of a similar build. At 165 now. Changed nothing. I'm still the same guy. Although phisical appearence was never a sticking point for me.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2015-07-08T05:03:37+00:00

Yes. At the end of the day, it's not about dat mass. You can be the swolest motherfucker on the block and still have the social skills of a 3 year old. Know what I mean?

matulo5551 · 2015-07-10T07:38:16+00:00

Same here. 6'5 and 155. Started working out recently, gained about 5 pounds and i am already seeing some results

zachspear · 2015-07-07T22:04:59+00:00

I don't like that idea. It sounds like you may be insecure about your body.... If that's the case watch this video to see what women really care about.. www.youtube.com/watch?v=_TpBdA7YonU

Title	Should I even consider approaching at this point.
Author	ThisIsaBattle
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	July 7, 2015 12:44 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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