Should you be indifferent or put your foot down

RacingDaze · 2020-04-14T21:25:50+00:00

leave me on read for a week and it's a done deal. next. edit: a word

autobots_rollout · 2020-04-14T23:02:07+00:00

Don't bring it up...just don't reply for a couple days. She's communicated that you aren't her priority so don't make her yours. Start prospecting other women but keep her around imo

hunterpua · 2020-04-14T23:18:55+00:00

Don't put your life on pause for a woman who is not showing you the respect you want.

Continue to meet other women and don't stop until you decide to make one of them your girlfriend.

That means if you meet someone new, exchange numbers and start talking to each other maybe working on setting up a date, still continue to meet others.

Just because you exchange contact details with a girl you're attracted to doesn't mean you're no longer single.

Both of you are still single and free to meet and flirt with and even get sexual with as many people as you want.

The only time you shouldn't be doing that anymore is if you get into a relationship and both of you want it to be monogamous.

This does mean that you'll just ignore this behavior from this particular girl but it also means that she stands a huge chance of losing you because I doubt getting responses that take weeks at a time is very enjoyable for you and if you're seeing 5 other girls who respond like normal human beings then she will be so unappealing compared to them.

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Charlaradon_1500 · 2020-04-15T09:24:56+00:00

If she isnt that big of a deal and you think at the very least she is worth keeping as an ally, indifference. We're all busy and this is life.

If you were/are interested; whether she knows/knew or not, i'd say indifferently delete delete delete. If she knew, thats no bueno. On the other hand, if thats how she treats you when she doesnt, imagine what will happen when she does.

Im a bit more cynical with relations now a days, and i never liked to be this guy, but if she isnt paying attention to you with certain specification, shes paying attention to someone else.

Delete Delete Delete.

ragesbastardson · 2020-04-15T18:26:33+00:00

Straight out truth? I'm talking to too many other women to care.

If I want to reactivate though, the worst thing I can do, is make it super dramatic and serious. That's a weak behaviour to signal to a woman, and will only repel you more.

Truth be told, there could be heaps of reasons why she isn't replying that are rational or irrational - but they're not your business.

I can say, unless it was my girlfriend or wife, I wouldn't bother creating a drama about it. It's not worth it. Nobody owes you a message.

Just keep moving on with other women, or reactivate her. But don't meet this with any aggression or force. It won't work out for you.

Aerial_penguin · 2020-04-14T21:45:47+00:00

Respond in 2 weeks

volcanolairbadguy · 2020-04-15T22:13:33+00:00

Cobra Tate millionaire and kick boxing world championship multiple times mentioned getting flaked by Ig skank. He's a millionaire. You downgrade her to booty call. When she talks ltr or marriage you troll and pull a girl newly 18

Curly_umbrella · 2020-04-16T04:05:14+00:00

Please please don’t bring it up. That’s metaphorical suicide. I say don’t reply.

dontbanana · 2020-04-15T01:34:25+00:00

I know everyone likes say move on instantly but you can turn these girls around. Just respond normally then ask her out again in a week or two.

ThaGhost32 · 2020-04-17T14:14:21+00:00

Show her that you can find someone better who will give you the time of day. How do you do that? Don’t respond to her since you’re not in it to play games. Obviously don’t do this if it’s only been a couple hours or even a day, but a week is just absurd

Title	Should you be indifferent or put your foot down
Author	jayden839orr
Upvotes	7
Comments	12
Date	April 14, 2020 9:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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