One of the aspects that scares me off when trying to approaching someone (probably the only aspect) is the social pressure that comes with it... and I mean by daylight - not in a bar.

Afraid to come out as creepy, or misjudged, or weirdo. That is my biggest fear. Approach a girl and she automatically be afraid of me... or see me as someone that is trying to do her some kind of harm. Or others thinking the same... Toxic masculine.

I dont want that .. I am not that.