Some very specific problems (DHV and certain approach situations)

takishan · 2010-08-20T02:10:43+00:00

It's just approach anxiety. Do more approaches and relax, you'll be fine.
Tell stories. For example, I'll tell people about the time I jumped out of a girl's window only to land on her dad's car, fucking up the hood(I was 17 at the time). I tell it in an exciting manner though. I generally try to stay honest, or at least close to honest, but sometimes I may exaggerate a few parts for the simple fact of keeping people entertained. Just tell stories that people would like to hear, and let the stories be about interesting things you've done. If you don't have any interesting stories, then I guess you could make some up... but I'd suggest becoming an interesting person first.

ArMcK · 2010-08-20T02:07:34+00:00

Download Magic Bullets, it explains DHV pretty clearly.

tl;dr DHV is something you bring to their party, conversation, or life that is valuable, i.e. you have social status, you are powerful, you are fun, you are rich, you can provide, you can improve their situation somehow.

This is implicit in your posture, clothes, grooming, language etc. It is explicit in your routines and stories.

An example is Sedditor walks into a bar, he is tall and handsome (DHV attractive), has good (DHV health) confident (DHV alpha male) posture, is well-groomed (DHV sees himself as having value), is smiling (DHV friendliness), is wearing nice clothing (DHV wealth) that features his body (DHV health, reproductive viability, resource defense), and leads male friends of similar quality (DHV leader of men, selective company) or high status females (DHV preselection).

Every girl in the club sees that in the first 10 seconds. Now how fucking scared are you?

Anyway, Sedditor moves through the room opening and mixing sets (DHV social status) and during his attraction building phase he's doing routines or telling jokes or stories that have DHV spikes like "I learned this from a guy I met in Vegas" (DHV without bragging or specifically pointing it out enough wealth to travel and intrigue (she's now wondering why Sedditor was in Vegas.))

Does that make any sense?

Fake it till you make it, be creative because lots of little things can DHV till you have the life experience to make bigger DHVs. Also, no one gets the porn stars and heiresses in bed until they start getting the big DHVs, so don't feel bad if you haven't been to Vegas or Thailand or whale riding in the Pacific. Remember not even the Most Interesting Man in the World has enough time to sleep with every girl--we can be there to comfort them >:)

lookatmeimskinny · 2010-08-20T02:09:47+00:00

Observational openers
DHVs are generally using chick crack or telling stories. Any other way that she can find out about your positive, "alpha" traits (e.g. observation) is also a DHV.

Title	Some very specific problems (DHV and certain approach situations)
Author	saladpacifist
Upvotes	2
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Date	August 20, 2010 1:33 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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