Hello, as for (probably) most people, there's times where I'm more confident (if things go well) and times where I'm less confident (e.g. when I'm stressed).

Obviously, women notice this. You will get more attention whenever you're confident. But I noticed something weird.. suddenly, even women who I haven't met in a long time will start messaging me. They cannot know that I'm in "confident mode". It almost feels like all of my female connections have a secret group chat and are like "hey, he's confident again, let's suddenly jump on him like crazy".

Some possible explanations I came up with:

-This is just my imagination and women I haven't met don't actually start messaging more often, I just pay more attention to it.

-There's some kind of general tendency for a certain mood at a certain time for all people in a community. And whenever, I am more confident, many women are more confident/happy, too (which makes them text me). This could be influenced by a lot of things that affect a whole community.

E.g. a day with good whether, summer/spring, the national team won the soccer cup -> general good mood

Bad weather days, fall/winter, a terrorist attack happening -> general worse/insecure mood

So, what I mean is that there is a general correlation of people's moods at a certain point of time depending on what's currently happening around a community. The result is that due to that, women and me are just confident/happier at the same time. (Personally, I think this is the correct explanation)

-Women can somehow subconciously "estimate" (by experience) after how much time passed, you'll again have a more confident moment. (Which I think is rather unlikely)

Did you guys notice something like this, too? Do you have other explanations?