something that i cant stop thinking about and its ruining my direct game

Yotuka · 2012-03-30T04:04:09+00:00

Do they really? Every day spending minutes/hours in the bathroom checking themselves out whether it be the washroom at home or at school. Girls are insecure and if one knows she's hot good for her. Even if she knows she is hot she will always compare herself to the next girl and the next and the next. So ultimately, even if she knows she's hot she is still trying to improve herself. Just like us in Seddit.

2012-03-30T04:09:03+00:00

Or, because they're so hot, most guys put them on a pedestal and are too intimidated to be upfront and turn on "Nice Guy" mode.

In either case you don't have to tell a hot girl she's hot in direct game. I do agree that telling hot women they're hot before you're already with them is usually bad.

Also, I've heard a lot of people say gaming hot girls is easier cause they have respect for guys upfront/ballsy, and gaming less attractive girls is harder because guys being sexually aggressive and upfront is outside their reality.

That being said, my game is terrible and I have my own issues; that's just a regurgitation of my keyboard jockey knowledge. I suppose try it and find out which works for you.

blahm3 · 2012-03-30T05:33:45+00:00

There is a lot more to direct game than simply telling a girl she is hot or cute.

Direct game is a personality that must be exuded from your core. You must have strong dominant body language. You must be physically direct as well and must always speak your mind.You should not be smiling when you go direct. Smiling is submissive body language.

The attractiveness of direct game is reckless boldness that exudes I don't give a shit. you are communicating that you don't care if she rejects you. It is very masculine. You are not going up to tell her she is hot to get something back. You are telling her because that is simply what you want to say.

Every other guy is going up to her saying stupid bullshit. Trying to impress her, trying to make her laugh etc. But she knows whats on their mind and what they are up to. Suddenly a man appears who says what everyone else was afraid to say. She senses his fearlessness and knows he is a man. Bold fearlessness is the most powerful DHV you can ever give and will turn a women into a submissive little girl.

D3l7a3ch0 · 2012-03-30T05:50:46+00:00

can't lose social value when you have none to begin with and you go for broke, dude. cute? try I love you

Manny_Rize · 2012-03-31T11:22:57+00:00

Be discerning whenever taking advice from people who use "always" or "never". All it is marketing, companies trying to seperate themselves from the competition. Your friends mentality is just a byproduct of that.

SoHiSoFly · 2012-04-03T13:45:47+00:00

Though hot chicks are quote-unquote HOT, that doesn't mean they are still insecure. EVERYONE (even models, actresses, musicians, athletes) is insecure about something.

Women that are a bit down the line (7's & 8's) are more secure about facing their insecurities, than women that get fawned over. Because they are ahead of the ugliness curve, but recognize that they still have some mental beliefs to workout.

No matter who it is (Halle Berry, Kate Upton, Selma Hayek, Lucy Liu, & whoever else in "the Canon of Desired Persons") women always have a habit of comparing themselves to the next woman (read insecurities). Consider the number of women that refuse to be seen naked in lit areas, even with their bf. Women NEVER feel acceptable in all areas, because the threat of other women won't allow them to be.

They can compare physical traits, but women have yet to understand the psyche of other women. They don't know if that "ugly chick over there" has more or less confidence socially than them.

So what do women do? Divide and hate.... I talked about that in another post.

Title	something that i cant stop thinking about and its ruining my direct game
Author	oiwin123
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	March 30, 2012 1:53 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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