So I've been a long time lurker on this sub and all the help and advice I've obtained from all you guys has been amazing and has helped me tremendously so that I have a girlfriend of 2 years now. Recently we both found out she is pregnant (7 weeks) now I have a good full time job a decent two bedroom apartment and plenty of family and friends for support and help. But recently my gf hit me with some feelings. She says that our relationship isn't how it used to be and that she wishes it was back to the way it was when we started dating, she says I don't show the same amount of desire and affection I used to show. I do kinda understand were she is coming from our sex life isn't half of what it used to be and it's not that I'm not attracted to her anymore it's that I'm about to be a dad and my mind is always full or on other things, I guess I'm living in the future a little too much but can you blame me there is a kid in that future that I'm trying to think about. I guess the advice I'm looking for is how can I keep my gf happy and show her that same desire and affection even though her emotions and hormones shift every hour. Is she being kinda selfish and only thinking about herself? She's the mother so obviously she is taking a huge toll growing a baby inside her belly. Maybe I'm being dumb idk, any advice would be great. Thanks everyone!