Hey yall, Basically, im above 6 feet, 21 years old (always looked older than my age). Been athletic since I was a teen so I have a muscular build, im constantly being looked at by women. The reason Im saying this is because I think im a good looking kid. As soon As I approach i feel like this changes.

I go to university in a big city. (i look older than most people in my school) Im usually the most well built, and best dressed kid in my class. Im really not trying to toot my own horn here, but I cant figure out what im doing wrong. Most people i meet think im flooded with females attention. I feel like my lifestyle doesnt match the way I look, but I want it to.

Most my life ive been timid with women, I got laid throughout highschool and college but never anything serious, and not as much as I think I could be doing. So recently, I started approaching girls at college, Still its like jumping into freezing cold water for me but I force myself to do it.I usually get a few sentences in before I run out of things to say. I overthink what ill say, because i have a bad tendency of putting my self in the friendzone by the things I say. I have a hard time being direct, and end up talking about class or the weather... lol

I AM CONSTANTLY WORRIED THAT MY COLLEGE YEARS WERE SPENT BEING TIMID. I realize I'm more than half way done, and am worried that i may never have opportunities like college where so many people my age are in the same place, ready to hook up. Also, i don't have tinder or anything because I feel like that'll make me look desperate, but ive been entertaining the idea. I've just never been on a date, and don't plan on taking a girl I've never seen on one. Plus I dont really have the means to be wasting a lot of money on treating people.

But sometimes something special happens to me where I dont think at all, and everything I say comes out really fucking smoothe and 2 times this year ive hooked up with chicks within 24 hours of meeting them, where I spit game the point I didnt recognize myself.

Things didnt work out with them so im back to having no girls that im talking to, and my social life is slowly declining in general.

At school ,when I approach chicks, it usually doesn't go past a few sentences. I feel maybe the way I look intimidates them? Or maybe I just dont know what im doing. They dont usually open up to me, its like im in a job interview so I just bail. I HAVE no idea what to talk about and think it would be too forward to ask her for her number if I havent really spoken to her and found something we could do. I really need to learn how to close. Someone told me i invest too much into the idea of getting girls, and i need to just flow and let them come to me.(which is how ive gotten all my girls this far) But I dont want to lose anymore time and be one of those guys that says man I wish I could go back to college, i could've had it all. chicks aren't the most important thing in my life, by no means, but i want to know what it feels like to be able to get them, i think everyman does.

Any advice for the kid. I know I wrote a lot, I appreciate your time peeps.