Techniques to develop congruence?

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-06-26T10:31:57+00:00

Too many people do put the cart before the horse. It's pretty hard to think logically when people do think with their dicks doesn't it? Sure, this sounds harsh because many men do crave to be validated, especially by a "someone" who they perceive to hold value and the point here is that men who are coming from this angle need to realize what the potential true problem is and it's not a "women problem" or a "I don't know what to say problem during dates," but rather a low self-esteem problem.

Fix this and the world will become your oyster because with confidence you will not be afraid to be who you are because you understand that all this time that...

"I am enough."

And what better is it to have the freedom to be yourself because there is nothing to memorize for you to say in order to impress others because you already know who you are and that...

"I am enough."

So the problem of incongruency suddenly vanishes because you are you and you simply say "what pleases you" because after all, this is your life.

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-06-26T10:21:52+00:00

Try to talk about relatable topics.

Keep it light and flirty.

Be confident and comfortable in your own skin. (this is a big one)

Know how to say things. Vocal Tonalities and completely change the meaning of a word or sentence.

Be adapting to the situation and woman.

destroyallpotatoes · 2025-06-26T19:39:20+00:00

Get into public speaking. Speaking helps the nervous system adjust to the natural flow of your body.

Speaking to yourself also helps, in the mirror. Practice talking positive things about things. And indulge yourself in the thoughts that come to you about that topic.

I often look in the mirror and talk about how I’ve grown up to be and what I will be in the future.

Stock_Touch_5204 · 2025-06-27T16:04:26+00:00

The classic Unstoppable Confidence, I believe its on SoundCloud,

Ideally you need to be working on your inner game and also getting your outer game habits down both at the same time.

The "All that matters is state bros" its like having a sick ass engine in your car, but no steering wheel. The super technical "outer game or routine bros" its like having a car that looks super sick, but no engine. However... if your an "outer game or routine bro", you can get lucky if you are having a good day and for whatever reason are actually in state. If your just in state standing there however, yes.... some woman may approach, but she will still excpect you to be a man and lead (obv there are exceptions). So yes your inner shit matters, but being able to tease, escalate, kino, etc, matters as well. Its better to have a horse and a cart than a horse without a cart, or a cart without a horse.

COMPEWTER_adminisp · 2025-06-26T23:11:32+00:00

listen to the unstoppable confidence course from ross Jeff, its on YouTube, powerful stuff.

Head-Water-6370 · 2025-06-26T12:27:14+00:00

Stop being a weirdo nerd

Title	Techniques to develop congruence?
Author	Alive_Resolve_9043
Upvotes	9
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Date	June 26, 2025 10:12 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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