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Ten Surprising Facts About Rejection

Gamma_Male_

July 24, 2014

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http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-squeaky-wheel/201307/ten-surprising-facts-about-rejection

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Title	Ten Surprising Facts About Rejection
Author	Gamma_Male_
Upvotes	32
Comments	17
Date	July 24, 2014 3:32 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2bk9of/ten_surprising_facts_about_rejection/
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Take the buddhist perspective. Observe your pain, take note of it, meditate on it and why it occurs. Heres the important part tho: understand the attachment to pain, and more likely the attachment to the absense of pain. In this instance, we dont approach because we are avoiding pain. When rejection occurs, feel that pain, that aggression, that exclusion, even the lonlieness, and let it pass through you. Dont ignore it or repress it, but take note of everything you feel, try to understand why you feel that way. To feel pain without suffering it, you must understand the root of pain and the root of suffering. The root of pain is in the physical world. The root of suffering is in the soul, when the soul becomes attached to aspects of the physical world. One thing i thought that was interesting is that people are thrown off balance by rejection. One of the biggest obstacle of attachment is to things staying the same. The thing about balance is that it must constantly be in flux, a fact we choose to deny. But to remain balanced, we have to challenge ourselves. So thats why you should make approaches.

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