I have many friends that EXPECT the environment, being the venue, festival, bar, club etc to provide them with positive energy. They rely on the external to feel good. You need to be the one who makes the party, the party comes from within yourself. Instead of thinking about going to a venue and trying to figure out if it will make you feel good or not, you should be thinking "how can I make this venue good?" Stop going out and expecting the environment to make you feel positive emotions, the environment doesn't owe you shit!

You get out what you put in, once you get out, you need to push yourself to be social and get the momentum rolling, regardless of how lethargic or tired you think you are. There is always more energy in you but you need to slowly build it up by approaching and having fun via self amusement. Its literally impossible to have a crappy night if you take action.

Next time you are contemplating going out and expecting the externals to make you feel good then shut the fuck up and realise that its all on you and you only get out what you put in so get out there and make the party happen!

Also, feel free to download my free guide: 10 Mistakes Guys Make When Approaching Girls http://innergameblog.com/free-guide-book/

Thanks