Best learning opportunities lie in failure.

I had a girl I was gaming it was working, and then I got complacent, comfortable there were things about her I put on a pedestal, she began to withhold sex from me more often, it became a mission to make her feel more comfortable to show her my intent, and I lost frame and state.

I lost the ability to remain mysterious, in control, to keep driving attraction to me, because I didn't need it from her. I started to become an AFC again...

But my Oneitis showed me things, It showed me the above, it drove me to not want to continue to improve myself to get her back or to even be a petter PUA but to be more whole as a person. I knew that it was a reflection of myself that I had become like this and that I had more inner game work to do.

I couldn't let the Oneitis and the feelings thereafter tear me down, instead I had to use it as fuel to drive me. I learned to and am working on body language more, outcome independence, and the constant self improvement to not "show" that I don't need her to truly be me, but to be me and have whoever is lucky enough to be in my life appreciate and come along for the ride.