The magic rule.

Naga14 · 2012-10-30T04:34:30+00:00

Nope, nope, nope! I used to be Mr. Nice Guy and only thought about others. Do good when you can, but often times you should be thinking about what you want.

Guys concerned with only other people's happiness:

-Supplicate

-Stay in relationships that aren't good for them

-Aren't ambitious

-Think that being nice should reward them with something

Never let go of your own happiness. It is more important than anything, because a man who does what he wants fulfills himself and becomes a better person in general, allowing them to be value giving. Don't confuse "give people what they want" with "value-giving." A value-giver can be very concerned with their own happiness and still be a great person to other people.

Just my 2 cents.

puntingbaxter · 2012-10-29T21:06:20+00:00

This advice is posted here all the time.

Be a value giver is not a new concept

LifeRestart · 2012-10-30T03:34:47+00:00

Can you create some real life examples of how this might work, and how it can give me all the benefits you listed? Thanks

itsmehobnob · 2012-10-30T17:18:51+00:00

Goal: become outcome independent

Method: make others happy

Raise your hand if you see the contradiction.

2012-10-30T04:28:15+00:00

Gotta spread that positivity.

chi_gha · 2012-10-30T05:21:33+00:00

You are what you want, so be congruent when you convey your intentions. Maintain congruence as the woman tests those intentions.

Do not focus on value-based interaction. Focus on congruence-based. Work on improving yourself, so when congruent, you reflect a high value person.

2012-10-30T06:19:19+00:00

Just provide value without any intention of getting it back in return. I think that is important. Otherwise you'll end up with Mr. Nice Guy.

paulgualtieri · 2012-10-30T05:28:27+00:00

I think this is completely useless from a seduction perspective. And lest we forget, that is the title and sole purpose of this subreddit.

It is incredibly vague, trite, and has nothing whatsoever to do with having sexual intercourse with girls.

Too much of this kind of "rah rah, you're the man, find your inner light and that's all you need to get laid" kind of shit here. Useless. You need more than "inner game" to get laid. You need some specific strategies, tactics, advice, etc. That is what we need more of here.

An example of something useful: go to places near your own house. Much easier to get a girl to come over (the first step to getting sex with her) if you're asking her to walk 2 blocks and not 2 miles. This is solid, very concrete advice and I have thoroughly field-tested it.

Title	The magic rule.
Author	cammil
Upvotes	11
Comments	16
Date	October 29, 2012 8:50 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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