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[–]itsiceyo 17 points18 points19 points 14 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
yeah. Something i had a habit of doing is breaking eye contact. Being a little competitive, ive turned it into a game, and now i almost never break eye contact first. I agree that it dissipates the tension, but its crucial to hold it instead.
[–]NZpua 9 points10 points11 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this is so money i'm going to try it, lately I have gotten really good at maintaining eye contact, makes people more receptive and engaged in the interaction.
[–]haiku1991 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
dude, that's brilliant. it never crossed my mind to think of it like a game. I usually have trouble maintaining eye contact and I have to keep reminding myself "don't look away, don't look away." I am definitely going to try this out.
[–]itsiceyo 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
thanks! you'll find conversations to flow easier and be 'meaningful' and have a little more umph to them. Let me know how it works out.
Dont forget. you can do the "TRIANGLE". you can look at each eye and top of the nose to give your eyes a more fluid and active action, rather than giving a death stare :D
hope this helps some of you!
*edit - dont forget to smile!
[–]iznou 7 points8 points9 points 14 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
60 years of challenge knows his shit
[–]MrFunnycat 5 points6 points7 points 14 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Seriously, his quadrilogy is the best PUA stuff that I have ever read. It's just such a different approach than what's traditionally understood as PUA, it's better broken down and provides an overview of the whole mechanic as well as specifics all the way from screening to LTR. I know this sounds like an ad, but honestly, I'm really glad that I stumbled upon it. It's a game-changer IMO.
[–]Blackfaced 3 points4 points5 points 14 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Link? I'm on my iPad so if it's on the sidebar I can't see it.
[–]MrFunnycat 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't think it's legally available for free, it's just 4 books, the current price is $47 for the whole bundle. I'm not used to spending money on stuff like that myself, so let me just say that there's a torrent of it, and it's pretty easy to find (sorry 60years). If I was less broke I'd buy it though.
[–]Blackfaced 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks I'll find it, let's just say I didn't spend $500 to watch the Blueprint.
[–]ShittingTits 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Holy shit, The Blueprint is $500?!
[–]ohsnapitsrags 7 points8 points9 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sometimes when I'm feeling extremely confident, I'll go in for the kiss and stop VERY briefly right before we connect. Just look her in the eyes for a split second and then go ahead. It's as if I'm saying, I know what I'm doing, and I know you want this.
[–]pualive 6 points7 points8 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would go even further than this: it's crucial to hold tension even when you transition from just dating to LTR. Tension creates sexuality, and tension is driven by fun things like being challenging, not having time, and, well, creating drama. Eye contact and general non-reactiveness will go a long way in creating tension, doing exactly what you want when you want to will go even further ...
[–]pk_atheist 5 points6 points7 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A great way to put the pressure on when asking for a number is to hold your phone out in front of you so she's the one feeling awkward for not doing anything.
I've never had a girl not take the phone.
[–]Venage 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've been hearing a lot of positive reviews on 60 Years of Challenge but I haven't been able to find it online except for torrent, which I can't do since I'm at college. Do you know where else it's available free of charge? And if I need a legal disclaimer, I lost my previous copy.
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