I had a major breakthrough this weekend, gents, and I would just like to share it with you. It concerns my understanding of inner game and what that truly entails.

Background: Roommate is seeing a 10/10 HB. However, this girl transcends the typical HB scale because, and I swear this as a wholesome person myself, she has a super attractive personality. She's honest, she's real, she is confident, and she's socially aware. Needless to say, I was all over her all night, macking hard, etc, and i did all the right things to say and do to seduce someone, but she's with my roommate (complicated situation, not worth explaining).

Here's the thing, I didn't even realize I was macking so hard until the next morning. My attraction was so natural, so organic, I didn't even realize I was gaming this chick until everyone told me the day afterwords. This, is truly what game is: it's how you act around women when you don't even realize you're gaming them. Sure, I am well aware of the tricks, the IOIs, the push-pull, all of these are simply tools. But real seduction happens when you don't even realize it is happening.

I suppose my message to many of you guys is that just let things happen naturally. All these tools on the website, all the hints, tricks, etc, are just the beginner's tool kit. What actually woos, and sells you as a person to the ladies, is YOU.

This also ties into what I consider a major problem of the Seduction community, which is social conditioning. For instance, I attend a major university with a large Greek population (read: fraternity/sorority), and I've always been attacted to them (or so I thought). However, after last night, when I experienced legitimate attraction, I understood how I've just been conditioned to think these girls are attractive, even though I know their personalities largely suck, they don't offer me anything I desire (except for one small thing),and they aren't my "type".

Sorry for the novel, however, I feel these lessons will be useful for beginners to the game and help them understand the framework for our engagements. Bottom line, BE YOURSELF! Real women are attracted to real men, the most important thing to understand is: Successful seduction is attracting women that YOU want, not attracting any woman period. This is an important distinction.

Feel free to add your thoughts. Cheers!