Let me start by saying thank you for the overwhelming support on my post yesterday. Everyone on this thread is so fucking cool and I loved hearing your advice and perspectives. Learning pickup is something I don't even tell my closest friends about so it's so nice to be surrounded by a group of motivated people in all stages of "the game".

Update on moisturizer girl: We talked a ton on snap yesterday and I eventually asked for her Instagram handle. She gave it to me but waited for a good 12 hours to accept the request which I thought was odd. I now realize why, as when I went on her insta she had like 4 pics with her BOYFRIEND. I hit her up and asked

Me: "Uhhh do you have a boyfriend??"

Her: "Ummm so it's really complicated at the moment, we haven't seen each other in a few months but the short answer is yes. I'm so sorry and should have told you but our interaction was so cute yesterday I couldn't resist :))"

Some nice validation there but I'm not really sure what to do. For the advanced guys in here, do you think I should keep texting/snapping her and push for a date or just wait for them to break up?

As far as today goes, I was not successful. However, it wasn't due to a lack of balls. I went to the mall, whole foods, and Safeway, and *I shit you not* did not see one attractive girl, let alone any that seemed remotely close to my age. So if anyone has some Covid-19 day game ideas that would great, otherwise I'll keep scouting grocery stores lmao.

Takeaway: Today I truly got a sense of what an abundance mindest feels like. Anytime things wouldn't work out with a girl in the past I would wallow in self-pity then wait for the next opportunity to fall in my lap. The mere act of going out in hopes of approaching a girl and not being worried about the outcome was a huge step in reinforcing the fact that I am in complete control of my dating life. It's hard to describe but these last two days have been a complete paradigm shift for me.

But anyway, thank you all again for the support! I will hopefully see gym girl tomorrow (sunday is my off day so I didn't go today) and will have another update again tomorrow.