Listen, if you don't usually get girls, you would think that understanding their general behaviour and managing to sleep with many of them is cool, that you are going to be happier if you feel desired and enjoy sex frequently.

However, once you start this path, there is not way back. As far in time as it may seem, you may end up reifying them earlier than you think. This could make you unable to have a romantic relationship with a girl since you completely understand or at least are aware of most of their behaviours, and understand the relations with girl in a gamified way.

In my case, I kinda struggle to experiment real "love" and I'm not sure this is reversible. I have enjoyed sleeping with many women, and it has made me too rational against feelings.. I started feeling more externally validated when getting more girls, until the point where this doesn't happen anymore, I don't find any kind of positive tradeoff in sleeping with girls and even less from starting a romantic relationship. The different situations where I have experimented some love feelings, have made me completely rationalise them little by little instead of all in big batches like when having few higher quality relationships.

This is sad and happy at the same time, since thanks to this I've really gotten to know myself very well and feel I that it's easier to achieve my objectives. But it may be in one's personality to think like this.

Sure this is not going to make anyone avoid learning from this sub, especially those young boys who just want to get laid and struggle to talk with girls, but I just wanted to share some thoughts on the bad part of all of this for some of us.