Everything has finally come together for me. After a solid 2 years of working on pick up artistry, I finally feel like the man I always wanted to be.

Little background on me - I was a loser in high school and was always stuck in the friendzone with any girl I was attracted to, the few who did find me attractive I didn't have any real interest in (but still dated them anyway because hey, I was a teenager and I was horny). Talking to girls was alien to me, and the only ones I'd manage to actually get the courage to talk to were either friends of friends or ones that approached me first. Going out at parties I would suck at knowing what to say, asking the general boring small talk questions and when that ran out - if I was drunk enough - I'd ask them to makeout. Pretty rookie strategy, that worked surprisingly more than it should've. But I had no courage to talk to girls while sober, and absolutely sucked at expressing how I felt (generally just bottling it up, then telling them out of the blue one day and being surprised when the feelings weren't reciprocated).

Fastforward to this weekend - Every single interaction with every girl I spoke to was positive. To the point I had every single one of them eating out of my hand, and at some points had multiple girls surrounding me all engaged (and unintentionally made quite a few guys jealous, yeah, I saw the stares). I felt like a rock star. Everything just suddenly fell into place and made sense after all this time. All the inner game I'd worked on has really lifted my confidence and self-esteem to levels I never thought possible, I take pride in my appearance and always dress snappy, my body language and overall charisma have noticeably improved where I feel totally in control of any conversation, and speaking of which - my conversation skills: threading, DHVs, etc. have reached the point where they are now subconscious and completely effortless.

Now to the question you're no doubt all wondering - what came of all this? Well, perhaps to your surprise - nothing. I know I could've had any one of the girls I spoke to over the course of the weekend. But (apart from one who already had a boyfriend) I didn't really share any special connection with any of them, that spark that we all look for in an attractive partner. In the past I would've settled for any girl who gave me the time of day, but I'm not that guy anymore, and I don't have to play by his rules. I make the rules now, I make the choices - and it is an incredibly empowering and freeing feeling.

When I do find a girl I'm really attracted to, I know I have the ability now to go after what I want. And that's not only good for me, it's good for any girl I end up with. Because I'll truly have chosen her, not just fallen into her out of convenience (like countless other train-wrecked past relationships). And that's what everyone deserves.

Thank you so much to this community, I have learned so much here, and hope I am able to pass the insightful lessons I've been taught to others. I feel completely unrecognisable - it truly is amazing what transformation can take place when you strive for greatness.

It's a pretty awesome fucking feeling to be able to say - so this is what it feels like to be a boss.