Thoughts on having the "What was last night?" discussion?

shortiphonereply · 2015-11-03T04:01:00+00:00

I struggle with it a bunch. It usually never works in my favor. I'm currently avoiding it from a hookup from last weekend until I have time to hang out with her again and see if we can take it any further.

I'm feeling that actions are better than words do this sort of thing now

sedtawy · 2015-11-03T06:57:38+00:00

Depends on what you're looking for. I tend to have a very "we'll just feel it out" kind of approach to dating so for me I tend to go with what seems like a bit of a half answer. You tell her it was a wonderful night and you felt a connection. You're just feeling things out and don't know where this is going. You do want to keep seeing her but you don't want things to get too serious right now.

palmerd21 · 2015-11-03T13:17:33+00:00

Keep it sexual. "What was last night"

It was amazing. Your pussy was so tight and wet! Every time I close my eyes I think about you fucking my cock.

When she goes to feelings etc. continue with the sex talk.

authenticsociallife · 2015-11-03T06:36:42+00:00

The key to avoiding this is to be up front in the beginning; "I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm just looking for fun." The clearer you are on the front end, the less headache there is on the back end.

WayOfTheGentleman · 2015-11-03T07:14:13+00:00

The problem you have is you're not setting yourself as the 'fun adventurer' in her mind. I wrote about this in more detail here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3p7kxk/how_to_have_casual_sex_and_threesomes_with_lots/

Title	Thoughts on having the "What was last night?" discussion?
Author	Yalc_
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Date	November 3, 2015 2:01 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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