Hello everyone.

I just broke up with a gf of a year. It just started being LD and I became a little too needy during that and realized I lost her. We all know when that happens, I decided to come to a mutual break up with her bc she was turned off and I'm glad I did it. I was into seduction before and slowly lost touch but am happy to be back.

Recently I've been browsing tinder at work during the days and have had good success with matches and opening the girls. I usually say "honestly, I think we are perfect for each other", which has a great response rate or "are you adventurous? You look like the adventurous type" this does not get as good a response rate. Both result in a why and you can take it from there.

I read methods and haven chosen an honest and vulnerable approach. I use some cold reads on them then pretty quickly into the convo I say they are cute and that we should meet up for drinks. I've got 5 numbers so far out of the 7 I've asked. My first meet up is tomorrow.

My question is, do any of you have experiences with this? Have you figured out if asking early for a meetup is better or is waiting a week the best move in order to avoid flakes? I'm really not too worried about it as I've told them I'm going and that they should come. I'm going to open on girls there if they don't come. I am just wondering if any of you know the most successful time to wait before asking them to join you.