Tinder game: how do you keep it casual?

jgottlander · 2016-05-08T14:58:21+00:00

The pictures that mostly come up are those ready for instant hookup, not the normal ones. Don't have an exact ratio but I believe there's at least 10 normal ones for an "instant" one.

I also think women choose what they want with a guy according to the profile. If you are a hot one, bare body pics, muscles, stating what you want then I believe they see you more as fun/fuck material rather than boyfriend material.

rattamahatta · 2016-05-08T14:02:23+00:00

Are you physically escalating?

Clyde_Frag · 2016-05-08T15:55:04+00:00

I wouldn't use /r/tinder as any type of indicator at what you should be experiencing while using the app. Some girls won't fuck on the first date no matter what because they want to be more comfortable. Others will do it if your game is enough.

It sounds like you have some FWBs that are catching feelings. I would eliminate any type of "boyfriend" type of behavior if this is not what you want. Girls will get the wrong idea if you're cooking them breakfast and kissing them on the head after banging.

declan_doesnt_know · 2016-05-08T17:12:52+00:00

Tinder is full of fake accounts, I wouldnt read to far into these I wanna fuck right now accounts. If the girl wants a long term thing and you dont then that doesnt have any reflection on you. If you want to break up with these girls for not wanting to keep it casual then do you boo. Otherwise, make an effort and see where it goes. Life isnt one big porno. Girls arent gonna sleep with you if you just say a witty line. They may want to (some may even do it), but the majority will want to wait. Many girls are romantics at heart and want sex to actually mean something. That being said, yes there are girls that just want to hook up and be casual as well but you cant have that mindset going in to every date.

Big_TX · 2016-05-08T16:09:36+00:00

I have heard it varies a lot from city to city

Tamarin24 · 2016-05-08T22:05:18+00:00

/r/theredpill

Nikelu · 2016-05-08T15:46:39+00:00

Stop using fking tinder ffs. Put a good profile make a good bio and like everygirl. Leave your goddamn cellphone down and go out in the streets or your college and meet every girl , every girlfriend of your male friends etc etc. There is no seduction in online shitty apps. No girl expects a long term thing on tinder they are just looking for easy laids with alpha guys who have much more value than them. If you got and show value,and you are attractive and she is horny and nearby you will get your job done

Title	Tinder game: how do you keep it casual?
Author	withcompletehonesty
Upvotes	28
Comments	15
Date	May 8, 2016 12:36 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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