I matched with a girl on tinder and she saw me at a bar last night and texted me on tinder that she shes me. She was there alone i didnt recognize next day the texting went like this:
Me: you are right we saw eachother yesterday, you loooked so different i didnt recognize you :D
Her: I was not sure and secretly looked at you many times. Lol.
Me: haha really? I was wondering who is this island curly hair girl thats hiding in the corner.
Her: 3x laughing emoji
Me: unlucky situation but now at least we know (grin smiley)
Her: liking my message
Me: what name should i call u?
Her: beautiful
Me: haha i like your confidence. You should have said hello yesterday.
Her: i am shy person (laughing emoji)
Me: its okay i know how u feel :D i wanna check out some waterfalls on Wednesday. You should join me.
Her: liking my message then saying: you should go with your friends?
ββ- We joked around a bit on tinder before that conversation and she seemed attracted and i think actually smiled at me ydayβ¦but i was sitting very close next to another girl on some pillows on the floor in that bar(just a friend). Was my texting game bad? Should i bother rrsponding anything at all? I feel like i should just ignore her message and move on but maybe its just my insecurities, maybe talk to her in real life if i see her(we on small island)
Edit: it turned out completely different than i expected. So after the dialogue above i said: i already have different plans with my friends. I want to take you for this one. At first she just sent a πemoji..(i didnt reply) later she messaged again and said: thank you π we can meet at a bar(location). Then she said she wants to play snooker and find out if the bar open tomorrow open (we on small island so somtimes bars closed) tbh thank you i dondt know how this will turn out. But this situation is the proof that i catastrohize wayyy to much
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