Tips against attachment

ROBYoutube · 2024-03-16T07:16:06+00:00

You will need to start by identifying why exactly it is that you're becoming attached. For most guys, it's because they are so scared no other woman will ever sleep with them that they glom on to anyone who touches their dick, causing attachment-like behaviours.

Once the cause is identified, you need to figure out an approach to modulating those feelings in accordance with sanity and reality instead of letting weird, unexamined fears take the reigns.

norwegiandoggo · 2024-03-16T08:42:41+00:00

Why do you not want to get attached? I mean, it's a natural process when you get intimate and vulnerable with someone. It's a human thing.

If you could never get attached, I would consider that a much bigger problem.

Maybe what I'm asking is what downsides are there to you getting attached that you want to avoid?

InstructionAbject763 · 2024-03-18T19:58:30+00:00

Don't talk about emotions. Just be nice and leave. Don't make excuses either. And only sleep with people who are on the same page

Don't talk about anything deep or personal. Just be attracted to each other and be nice afterwards

But don't give time for the cuddling and hormones to take over yall

Edit: as a woman, casual sex is very easy

But men like to get emotional and shit and it's annoying

Like go talk to your friends. We are just fucking. I don't need to hear about your bullshit drama. Sorry, but sex isn't for that. Sex is for expressing attraction. Not finding emotional depth within each other

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-03-16T11:27:43+00:00

https://modating.substack.com/p/do-you-fall-in-love-too-easily

Title	Tips against attachment
Author	nikolastefan
Upvotes	19
Comments	22
Date	March 16, 2024 7:04 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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