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[–]gj667cc 21 points22 points23 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Relevant:
"I'm pretty sure there's a lot more to life than being really, really, ridiculously good looking. And I plan on finding out what that is." - Derek Zoolander
[–]Hormander 6 points7 points8 points 14 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
But I want to be at 10 out of 10.
That's totally unrealistic. Even Michael Jordan was losing some games and missing some shoots when he was dominating the world of Basket Ball.
Perfection is not possible in this world. And that's a good news.
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[–][deleted] -4 points-3 points-2 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
i'm just stuck in this comfort zone where I don't need to really make changes but I'm nowhere near a master.
[–]dieganExPat 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Something you can do: research. Start reading the sidebar links and generate specific questions, not "How do I get better?"
If I walked up to you and asked "How do I play music?" could you give me any useful information that I could not have found via Google? No, probably not. Same applies here.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've done a lot of that. Years worth. But like I said, most of the information available is catered toward socially-awkward virgins and is of no help
[–]SegaTakai 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In my experience, girls are only very occasionally turned off by skinny guys (6'3" 154lbs here). I'd suggest that you do some basic toning so you actually have visible pecs and call it good. Or, just don't wear tight shirts (buttondowns are amazing)
That's all I can think of, at any rate.
[–]GentLemonArtist 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]VMikeL 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Okay, firstly, if you want to be one of the greats, as in get any girl you want, whenever, wherever... You need to do a live in (Thousands of $ it is) AND/OR practice every day at every waking hour (results may vary, and may take years). This isn't to say you can't be good, but if you want to be "a master", there's a lot of commitment and sacrifice.
So your problems, are quite easy to get around (IMO) your looks shouldn't even be a concern. I have seen guys in field who are seriously average looking, do exceedingly well. One rule I tell people all the time on looks is "You don't have to be good looking, but you have to look good." - Adam Lyons. You should focus on the interaction itself, and not concern yourself with what they think of you. If you're doubting yourself, why shouldn't she? Of the two of you, YOU know yourself much better than she knows you. Enjoy the interaction and have fun, and all that superficiality will go away.
As far as you being skinny, the easiest thing to do is 1. Work out, and 2. don't give value to it. Like most guys doubts, their biggest issue comes when something that is arguably a drawback is given too much value (ie. being younger than her, shorter, etc). If you acknowledge or joke about it, and just move on, it means you don't give a shit, and neither should she. On your note about girls out with meatheads - it's an advantage. You're not a threat (physically), you can easily enter through the guy, and ask him about how to bulk up, and how hard he must work out like crazy to get his results. From there you can simply ask him to introduce you to his friends - BAM you're in.
[–]psyocal 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
lol, you're a 9/10...when it comes to trolling
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I can't believe some of you are getting so upset and are taking him seriously hahah.
[–]kidweapon 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The best resource would be your experience. You could go and read stuff to get better but it's all theoretical which isn't really applicable because every situation isn't perfect.
I reckon you'd be better off sitting down for a day and writing down every problem that you're having and i'm sure you've got the intelligence figure out the solutions to your problems.
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