Problem: Logistics logistics logistics. Nothing is more important and detrimental. I live on Long Island(1 hr away from city). She lives in Manhattan.

There is clear attraction but I need a smooth excuse to invite myself to her place. Then let escalation follow.

My problem is how to invite myself to her place without being too obvious. I want to keep the mystery and thus the sexual tension there until the deed.

Details on our 3 meet-ups: 1st: Met at bar with her and my friends. Talked and built raptor and then # closed. Talked to her friends a bit and they seemed to like me.

(tons of texting)

2nd: Met a week later on a date. Went to 3 different venues and ended up k-closing at second bar and then continued to kiss(tongue and all) through the night while keeping it fun and exciting.

(tons of texting)

3rd: Met on a monday night, 3 day later before she went away for a week. One drink at the bar(every place was empty) and then walked along the east river park (its really romantic and i recommend this because you are alone and can really connect). More kissing and then drove her to her apt.