Probably the most important thing I learned over year of trial and error is there are two types of guys. Those who believe their value to women is in there time and presence and those who believe their value to women is in what they can do for them, give to them or provide for them.

It’s literal night and day difference in the way they act and treat you when your value is in your presence. Sex is the first thing you’ll notice as they will want it equally if not more and that includes oral sex(you’ll still have to let her know that’s what you want and it will help if you can make her cum too but it’s also much easier to make her orgasm cuz she feels so feminine around you) You’ll notice you won’t deal with her showing up pissed off distant or bitchy for no real reason and if she does because you don’t play into that she’ll get outA it real fast. I haven’t seen that kind of behavior in years tbh and it’s so much better.

One of the issues with your value being in what you can provide is what happens when she doesn’t need you to provide her with anything anymore? Or you can’t provide at the same level or you were providing her by allowing her to achieve her relationship goals being with you and now she’s achieved them all?

The grass is definitely greener on the other side in this situation. When your value is in your presence women will just want to be around you because of how you make her feel. She is comfortable and feels safe being feminine around you and basically she feels like a girl or woman around you.

She might get a touch of that with the guy who’s providing but it doesn’t seem to last and once she can push him around it gets worse and you get them roommate style relationships.

There’s always exceptions to this stuff but you’ll see a huge difference in the way every girl you date short or long term treats you and acts around you.

To get this kind of change you really want to change your bad habits and bad, weak and needy behaviors.